indecisive

are any of you as indecisive as i am? i never really notice it... in fact i consider myself to be quite good at coming to resolve. but lately its being brought to my attention that im overly fickle...more so than usual. and now that its pointed out ot me i really see it.


today i was at baja fresh eating lunch when i was just looking around thinking to myself "man, i live in a prosperous time, things are good"


tonight on the way home from a movie im thinking "society has gone to hell in a handbasket, the moment $#%^ hits the fan what am i going to do to ensure my survival"


other things, like i have 3 characters on that warcraft game, i keep "making up my mind" on what i wanna work on next and i tell everyone, then i start on it and then suddenly go a different direction, and i "make up my mind" again.


people are pointing these things out to me...and im noticing them myself too. is this just a strange quirk to me? or do you guys find yourselves torn between resolve?

I deal with it daily, the indecision drives me crazy. I sometimes have a time just deciding what to have for lunch. One wants Mexican, one wants a salad, another wants pizza. It can be frustrating when I am hungry and "they" can't seem to agree on what to eat. It happens with most any decision I am trying to make. Sometimes my main alter just takes charge and makes the choice and that is it. They debate almost everything that happens in my life. I am use to it but sometimes it is aggravating.

Pookie

I'm only indecisive when all the choices are appealing

This is constantly happening to me as well!
Like pookie said... food is a difficult one... restaurants are terrible because everything looks good and everyone is hungry and eveyrone wants to try something.
Clothes is another one.
Shoes.
hair.
Time.
Books.
work.
Anything regarding a decision we are indecisive about. I usually have to start debating before I get to where I am going so we reach a conclusion before or shortly after we get there.
It can be super annoying!

Recognisable.. it's always a huge discussion before going to the McDonald's for example. Everyone has their own favorite menus which the others find disgusting, and most of the time, there are plenty of alters who feel that eating something there is a good idea .. But it's with clothing and loads of other things too.. there are just too many different tastes. And whenever the alters stay quiet, I'm as indecisive as hell myself too..

BIG TIME! all the time! unfortunately. sometimes having certain music playing in the background helps. what clothes i ware, food, projects, it's over welming at times. it makes me think of the "here after", everytime i go in another room i'm thinking "what am i here after!" funny, but so true. damn, if anyone finds a good way to deal with it, PLEASE let us know!

benny