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HELLO

Postby GrayWolf » Wed Aug 25, 2021 2:32 am

Hello Everyone
I know that Graywolf, myself and the other internal beings(alters) have not been on in a very long time we have all been very busy
We recently moved and she has been fighting to get custody of her son back that is in foster care
She tries very hard to stay in control and calm at all times though sometimes myself or one of the other internal beings (alters) will do co-control to help Graywolf
She has some dolls for the children internal beings (alters) to play with though sometimes when she misses her son she will feed the dolls and take care of them like she would her son though she only does so in private so no one thinks that she is weird
I'm not sure how to help Graywolf
Any ideas will be greatly appreciated
Have a nice day/night
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Re: HELLO

Postby Eliseahorse » Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:27 pm

I don't know how to help but we feel for you.xxx
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Re: HELLO

Postby ArbreMonde » Sat Aug 28, 2021 5:14 am

Sending a lot of moral support. I hope that at the very least you can get to visit often.
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Re: HELLO

Postby Johnny-Jack » Tue Aug 31, 2021 2:31 am

Hi Johnny and GrayWolf. I'm glad to see you've posted again. I've always enjoyed reading your posts over the years and you're definitely a poster I like to read first. I guess I like your tone, which is real, even when confused or suffering, but always with some hope in there. And of course, we have a Johnny too. We hope you're able to get your son back soon too so he'll experience your love and care first hand. But in the meantime he's hopefully in a safe place with decent people.
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Re: HELLO

Postby GrayWolf » Mon Sep 06, 2021 12:35 pm

Hello Everyone
Trying my best to keep Graywolf calm with how she misses her son very much and received an email about him not behaving during or after the virtual visits so they want to change the visits or terminate the visits at the next court appearance which has her very upset because it makes Graywolf feel like she is being a bad mum during the virtual visits when her son is staying to get upset she tries to read to him or sings or plays peek a boo trying to calm him down
She feels like she is a bad mum when she is doing a great job she always gets books to read to her son and looks at toys and clothing for him so we she resumes physical visitation she has a special toy for him to play with during the visit and a new outfit to take home
Myself and the other internal beings (alters) are doing all we can to help Graywolf but we are at a loss
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Re: HELLO

Postby ArbreMonde » Tue Sep 07, 2021 6:36 am

I agree, she is doing her best to be a good mom.

If her son is upset after the visits, it might be because it is normal to be upset when the visit is over and he misses his mom.
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Re: HELLO

Postby GrayWolf » Sat Sep 11, 2021 1:12 am

Hello Everyone
Graywolf got a phone call today that has been waiting for
She has her first physical visit with her son on Monday for the first time in over a year
She is very excited and trying to pick out what books to take with her to read to her son
She keeps telling me to make it Monday
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