Mental Health "Doxxing"

Eliseahorse wrote:Just a thought ... Could it have been your wife... It's certainly something my ex has done .... We can't go back to our hometown because he has convinced them that my did is actually something more sinister and alcohol filled. (Which is double hauling for us because we are teatotal, always have been.)

I don't THINK so... That seems a bit underhanded for her... but it's something I can look into. I'm far more tech-savvy than she is.

Wow, this is SO horrible. And scary, and yes....can imagine you'd feel so exposed. I'm sorry. And you're aware of everyone in your system?

I only ask this because we have someone inside who thinks if she can figure out "why we're doing this" then we can "stop pretending to have DID" and get back to our normal life. She also likes to tell some of us that we're borderline, which we're not...and that we are trying to get attention, which is not our usual thing at all. I believe she has only ever told this to the therapists, or written it in the journal, but I sort of have this real low-level fear that one day she's going to say it to the wrong person. She does, however, seem to have a good understanding of DID and likes to read papers, and birdsong's site and stuff. Not sure how much of it is just denial. She finds articles about somatic disorders and uses things like the psychogenic seizure disorder to prove her point. So that's why I'm just wondering if you've ruled out someone in your own system - but please, if this isn't helpful, just scroll past. And I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

Michelle

Hi Zor,

How did this come out?? You guys ok?

Iain

IainEtc wrote:Hi Zor,

How did this come out?? You guys ok?

Iain

We're ok... several of the friends we know that got it reported it and the account was shut down... and it's been quiet since then. So we're just gonna hope for the best and hope the reporting and police reports are enough to keep it from happening again. Maybe that scared dude off cuz it's been like super quiet on that front ever since.

{\Pixie/}

Glad things are ok for now.

Thanks Pixie. Just wanted to know how it's going.

Colin

So days after this thread's last post at the end of May last year I made a choice my personal FB page to just publicly state "Mental Health Awareness month is ending, and we all know someone with mental health struggles... think you don't? Well you do- me."
And I posted about having DID (without explaining what traumas- that's NO ONE'S business)...

of the 300 FB "friends" I had, I lost 100 or so over 36 hours...

BUT those that remained didn't freak out and many even replied in support.

The random "you know X person and X lies about..." BS... seems to have SEVERELY been curtailed and far less common.

I guess the "mic drop" moment of "Yeah, here's the truth... what can you say about me?" moment shut them up in large part.

And, honestly, I am glad I did it- it was a weight off my shoulders... and in general, it exposed who we shouldn't consider worth talking to and connecting with anyway.

Zor

I am glad that some good came out of this! I am happy to learn that the ones who stayed showed support!

ArbreMonde wrote:I am glad that some good came out of this! I am happy to learn that the ones who stayed showed support!

Not to like "necro" an old thread but I felt an update was like worth posting... (we still get reports of these being sent to ppl once in a while, but not as often)

So apparently a few ppl we know have gotten almost copypasta same messages about people for diff conditions- Autism, depression, etc...
It's a sick thing ppl are doing to torture ppl apparently... so it's not like UNIQUE to us other than the personal element added/changed for our situ.

Sometimes I hate "people"...

{\Pixie/}