allowing oneself a good moment in a bad life

birdsong87 wrote:I regret asking
we are not in the condition to discuss things right now

I did think you might because your adament it's a bad idea. It's ok to be miserable or to not do anything too. It's ok to just sit and watch TV and eat comfort food. It's ok to look after yourself however you want to as long as it isn't hurting others. And if that means saving then save.

My favourite lottery winner blew the lot in two years, doesn't mean that he has to be everyone's favourite lottery winner. I'm sure there's a guy not spending any and going to work. So it's horses for courses on what makes people happy.

You do you.

Much luck,

Sarah.

This thread and this issue aren't going anywhere.

Whenever you feel up to revisiting it, it will be here. It sounds like you have your hands full with other stuff right now. Wishing you the best.