Alters behavior

My alter is really wanting a relationship. He's wanting me to get out of the house. The pandemic I'm not really conserned of. But want to know your opinion on knowing your smarter than the average guy. Basically to find the guy I want I have to go back to work or school. Which I can't in my condition. So basically my alter wants a family he's been missing throughout my life.

Everyone is entitled to want stuff. It's how feasible it is and how you get there. How you get there has to suit everyone in the system. We as a system are by far not a shining example of what to do so I won't share it but it suited us and overall we are good at parenting - because we went to alot of classes. But we suck overall at relationships because in truth we're just not that interested. Batcho (Trouble)

we all want and need something that we were denied as children. the trick is to find a way that works for all of those with in you. Ive tried relationship even had a child to have some one to love me for who I am. Making those within wait for a better time can be hard.

is their a small group that you can work with. I start with support groups that focused on the issue that we faced. We even did solo time for just the body. It took some doing but meeting your own needs first make it easer for outside relationships with others.