Do your alters fight

Sometimes it really does look like I'm possessed. Luckily I only notice it because I'm alone. Today I was washing the dishes. Someone said I like spaghetti which has been going on for months. Then another one yelled go to sleep!!! How do I keep the chaos down and everyone polite?

Mine fight, tell eachother jokes and stories, comment on me which used to really disorientate me. Like the other day I got out the shower and sprayed bleach. Someone said "I said she was going to do that" It used to drive me crazy when that'd get overwhelming.

I've had the twins all day. They argue alot but somehow cooperate at the same time. They are a head f. At one point earlier they started switching parts back in rapidly which I was trying to shut down from yesterday. They're not good at outside conversation, as in verbally. They like to say things exactly right though so they switching in parts to say things exactly how they wanted them said. It was awful. I had to get off the phone eventually because they couldn't take the convo, started to pretend they were playing chess, or I was except I was an old man I used to know and I had to sit there while they finished playing chess. The best way to distract them is to be on-line of chat things where it's funny, then serious, then political, then funny, then religion, then memes, then a happy or sad personal story. Their minds jump so if I'm reading all different stuff it kind of controls it from happening in my head because I'm reading stuff outside. Also they unite more if there's an outside reason like a discussion where as if it's just in my head they argue. But they like online not real life. I learnt all this today. It's been a steep curve. I think they have passively influenced me like this before but I wasn't aware of them, couldn't hear the arguing but I'd feel agitated when I'd get very much into online convos where as now I know it's them I don't feel so agitated. It's still horrible though. I've kept completely to myself all day except a few text and 2 calls. I thought it was one call but it was 2.

When we first learned about the DID, there was some conflict but since then almost none. Disagreements yes, fighting no. The only way I know of to lower strife is communication but that's not always easy to achieve. I don't advocate fighting, but that's just what we planned to do internally and I just posted about it in a blog entry how we avoided an internal war.