Stranger wanting to know about possible relations

I am Stranger than you think. I'm helping this host peaches. So I can possibly get with her to know her better IRL. But I don't want to make us astranged. I really want to have some advice from friends pic. Or between "friends". I will take all opinions. But I don't want to take on the responsibility I know that will bring with it. Meaning what situations she's in. It's really both our baggage but I'm willing to be there for her in need and in her life for life till she's ready to meat me in person. Meanwhile I've been leaving her messages for her from diff. People but I'm not sure of the way things might be/ go for us in the long-term.. answer open-heartedly.

peaches129 wrote:I am Stranger than you think. I'm helping this host peaches. So I can possibly get with her to know her better IRL. But I don't want to make us astranged. I really want to have some advice from friends pic. Or between "friends". I will take all opinions. But I don't want to take on the responsibility I know that will bring with it. Meaning what situations she's in. It's really both our baggage but I'm willing to be there for her in need and in her life for life till she's ready to meat me in person. Meanwhile I've been leaving her messages for her from diff. People but I'm not sure of the way things might be/ go for us in the long-term.. answer open-heartedly.

I don't read many of peaches post. So she may not be in difficulty but maybe she would appreciate you being around to share what is both of your responsibility? Maybe it could even be fun and pleasant despite whatever troubles it could bring.

I want to sweep her off her feet and bring her to London. For our wedding vows. And I would like to have anybody's opinion or opinions for this ordeal I'm going through. But I want to know the moderators opinion. As well as associated people in their evaluation of my questions, to have her be my wife in real life.

You're a part of her system--an alter like her, right? You said your name was Kami in other posts. If that's the case, and you're NOT a separate physical person with your own body, then you can't marry her in real life. You are part of the SAME person.

You can marry her in your inner world, if she wants to do that also, as a symbol of being closer and having more communication, but you can't really, physically take her to London and actually marry her.

Have you spoken to your therapist about this?

I totally agree with Gang on this. I tried to write a similar post but it didn't sound right. Gang hit the nail on the head.