Separate yet together

Sarandipity wrote:So you have an undercurrent of rage or anger possibly coming from a defender or either of the child parts.

What do you think is the source of the rage, what are they rageful about?

This was really helpful. I asked inside and the answer came instant. Pretty sure from one of the newly found Littles. They were mad we do not still live by the bio family. Mad because they don't know what that means for them now and their identity. They have been stuck from a few decades ago.

I have been trying to help them get oriented to being safe now and how life has changed in our team journal, but they haven't responded. I hear them from inside some and so hope they feel messages I send them the same way I hear theirs.

I think it will be slow with them. These are the first dark side children I have been able to hear so clearly. They are siblings inside so maybe them being together makes them easier to hear.

The dark side is so much closer to the front right now and so we struggle. There is an adult who stays close to them that is encouraging them to have the need to return to the bio family. It is not safe. When I try to give this message my body feels pain. I am focusing on the present but I am struggling.