Hi Florelle
I haven't read this whole thread as I am geting exhaughsted (mentaly) and I wanted to respond before grace jumped in and took over.
Tell Little that if she wants to chat about bathroom things then she can send "fear" a pm I know bathroom things are a big issue for "fear" as we have been hospitalized through bathroom avoidance before. (kidney stones and feacal impaction)
It may be a few days before I come back so if Little doesn't like quiet maybe ping us next week. I'm hoping "fear" will come out herself when she sees the pm but if she doesn't then I can at least respond as someone (all be it an adult someone) who can empathise.
Big Hugs bathroom issues are not nice x