*TW* Part wants to die.

Hi Lilly,

I want to disappear sometimes and just not be around anymore. If you want to talk to other littles, this is a thread for us to talk about hard stuff:

post2216870.html?hilit=littles%20talk%20difficult#p2216870

I'm sorry you're feeling so upset.

Nadia

TheGangsAllHere wrote:Hi Lilly,

I want to disappear sometimes and just not be around anymore. If you want to talk to other littles, this is a thread for us to talk about hard stuff:

post2216870.html?hilit=littles%20talk%20difficult#p2216870

I'm sorry you're feeling so upset.

Nadia

Nadia,
Lilly cannot come out right now, as we are at work. But I made her aware of your message. She says thank you for talking to her. And thank you for reminding her about the little's thread. She would like to know if you want to be her friend.

V

Are there anyones inside that can help her? Take her to an interior safe place? Assure her she's safe & they will keep her safe? The hardest part for me is dealing with illogical ones. A lot of time mine are just all emotion. Try to just let them vent & stay calm. But keep the situation safe. We are learning to stay calm. Not good at it yet.

Hi Lilly. Yes—I want to be your friend. I think maybe we were already friends on the Littles thread, from before. I hope you can say hi sometime, and you can also talk on the Littles thread for hard stuff if you want to.
Nadia

KingsleyHere wrote:Are there anyones inside that can help her? Take her to an interior safe place? Assure her she's safe & they will keep her safe? The hardest part for me is dealing with illogical ones. A lot of time mine are just all emotion. Try to just let them vent & stay calm. But keep the situation safe. We are learning to stay calm. Not good at it yet.

We tried that for a bit. We have two that know how to put Lilly to sleep and they did that then stayed with her. But when she woke up she was right back to her bad emotional part. She seems to be a lot better now, not totally fine, but better. \

V

-- Wed Jul 03, 2019 11:31 am --

We would like to thank everyone who offered advice, concern and support.

Lilly is feeling better. I suggested that she write a list of concerns and talk to Daddy about them. So she came up with a list of "Negosheeayshuns" (negotiations, lol), and wrote them out. He did read them before talking to her, so that he had time to think. Then they discussed. He agreed to most of her demands.

I think this made her feel like she had some control in a situation that had her feeling helpless. And she also knows that once he makes a promise, he keeps them, so when he agreed to the things she was asking, that made her feel better as well.

He also took her out for her favorite food on Saturday, and stopped and bought her kettle corn. We had to go on a somewhat long drive on Sunday (about an hour), and he made sure to bring her kettle corn and then called her out to spend the drive with him. Last night he gave her a present, and gave her lots of cuddles.

She did have some nightmares, which none of us like... but all in all, things are getting better.

Thank you all. Sincerely!

V