My son

Did you go? How was it?

Una+ wrote:Did you go? How was it?

Not yet. There's a whole process to this. I'm not sending my son to just anyone. I've looked at a couple of options places wise. I'm going to go first and see what I think.

Also he needs to be ready and in a place where this will not disrupt his life. This is all about timing.

After I spoke to him I realised, as you also pointed out, it's not a life crisis. He's not in a crisis. He's aware he has a couple of parts. He's working full time and I want to make sure I get this right for him, right therapist, right timing, that I can be as supportive as is humanly possible. That his life is in a non pressure place so he can have minimal disruption to his life because therapy is hard.

Timing I feel is crucial in this. In a way its a situation that has plus sides if its done right he can avoid years of this disrupting his life and avoid crisis. Rushing into this in a panic I'm avoiding.

Thank you for asking though, you're thoughts are very appreciated.