For littles to talk about difficult topics (Trigger Warning)

Oh no ((

We are thinking of you. I'm glad you and your family are safe. Sending very big hugs if wanted.

Trish translating for a little here,

My name is winter. I was this systems first split. I won't go too far into details as our trauma is graphic and causes problems with our balance, what I want to talk about stems from it through and I want help stopping or maybe just hiding from the outside world, but I get triggered by cold and men. and I always put myself in dangerous situations when I am triggered. like I want to submit to men. it always feels like they will hurt me less if I let them do what they want. what do I need to do to disappear.

AgentOfProgress33 wrote:Trish translating for a little here,

My name is winter. I was this systems first split. I won't go too far into details as our trauma is graphic and causes problems with our balance, what I want to talk about stems from it through and I want help stopping or maybe just hiding from the outside world, but I get triggered by cold and men. and I always put myself in dangerous situations when I am triggered. like I want to submit to men. it always feels like they will hurt me less if I let them do what they want. what do I need to do to disappear.

Im real sorry . Um i used to be like that and its real real real real hard. I dont really got advice, i only got betterer cos the growned ups friends were nice to me and i learned that not all grownups are scary and mean and evil and bad

Hi winter,

We have someone like you in our system. They were really scared of adults - but adults are part of our system too so it was really hard for them. Then we went to therapy and our T was just another adult so nobody really trusted her. It took a long time and it was pretty scary, but we learned how to work with our T and then other adults (and maybe even trust some of them).

Iain

Hi,

We have to go do some really hard stuff at the dentist adn we don't wnat to. they stick things in your mouth and we dont like that. And they have needles and we dont like that too. But host says we have to do it because we have to have teeth and the dentist is a nice person and will take care of us I just dont want to go because Im scared. Im sorry im such a baby. i dont mean to be i''ll do better. sorry sorry sorry Evan

Hi we’re new here … and we have hard stuff to talk about but feel scared to. Not sure how to start. Wanting to say hi first I guess.

Hi Evan,

Hope your teeth are ok! Lots of people get scared at the dentist, not just kids. Hope Colin or someone else took over so you didn't have to be there!!

Gang kids

littlessystem wrote:Hi we’re new here … and we have hard stuff to talk about but feel scared to. Not sure how to start. Wanting to say hi first I guess.

Hi ..what did you want to talk about?

We're going to the dentist tomorrow. Evan is going to be in his castle. Host and I will handle it. He's going to be OK. Thanks for caring.

Colin

Anyone who goes to the dentist is really brave.

Hi littlesystem we are all ears we listen lots even if we don't always have the spoons to answer straight away.