Who really knows you?

If someone does it's an insider, but not me. Out of people with their own bodies, nobody.

There are two people that know some names and T knows every name I know. Hasn't seen them all, and "knowing them" in nowhere near. The parts I do know I think I know really well, and they know each other. That's why we co-operate well, we understand why everyone is like they are. So we forgive things with some parts that wouldn't forgive with another one (because they know better).

No response before called correctly. Stare, wait.

Takes too much time? Replace with better one.

Sami

Floralie wrote:No response before called correctly. Stare, wait.

Takes too much time? Replace with better one.

Sami

I can relate to that.

-- Sat Apr 13, 2019 1:38 pm --

Floralie wrote:If someone does it's an insider, but not me. Out of people with their own bodies, nobody.

There are two people that know some names and T knows every name I know. Hasn't seen them all, and "knowing them" in nowhere near. The parts I do know I think I know really well, and they know each other. That's why we co-operate well, we understand why everyone is like they are. So we forgive things with some parts that wouldn't forgive with another one (because they know better).

Also this. I feel like Mandy knows everyone best. She's the one who likes everyone regardless of any darkness or bad behaviour or even external mistakes like shoplifting or actual drunk and disorderly behaviour. But they only know eachother to different degrees and they do judge eachother - which is also necessary in ways. Getting all of ourselves to know all of ourselves is probably more than a life time task - like trying to get to know external people but harder in a way.

Thanks, Sarandipity. Sami's comment is not where it should tho, it was meant to thread about T not calling parts with their actual names. There was two of us doing stuff at the same time, so it ended up here for some reason I don't know how. Like literally no clue how it jumped here from where we were. So, maybe it's more than just two of us at the same time.

Also have a weird feeling about wanting to talk like a robot. It's not from Sami. Actually not sure if it was him after all. Or if he just thought the comment and left.

(Sent the comment already to a right thread, this one reported as double message, since they not allowed.)

Sorry OT.

Floralie wrote:Thanks, Sarandipity. Sami's comment is not where it should tho, it was meant to thread about T not calling parts with their actual names. There was two of us doing stuff at the same time, so it ended up here for some reason I don't know how. Like literally no clue how it jumped here from where we were. So, maybe it's more than just two of us at the same time.

Also have a weird feeling about wanting to talk like a robot. It's not from Sami. Actually not sure if it was him after all. Or if he just thought the comment and left.

(Sent the comment already to a right thread, this one reported as double message, since they not allowed.)

Sorry OT.

Who wants to talk like a robot - a little or an actual robot part or someone feels like a robot? - That's a sort of question my bf would ask, a getting to know you question it is. It's not always possible or easy to find the answer but I mostly find the questions helpful to get know myself because an outside person seems to ask questions more where as I tend to be like "someone's a robot *shrug" so I asked the question. Mandy

Only my dogs have seen all alters as I've lived alone for over 20 years now and only one specific 'front' at a time dealt with all interactions involving other people. so NO other human knows there's 'others'.

Floralie wrote:(Sent the comment already to a right thread, this one reported as double message, since they not allowed.)

unintentional and already quoted & responded to in this thread, no harm done, don't worry about it, thanks for reporting it though.

Even single minded people struggle with the feeling that nobody really knows them so it's bound to be that multiple people feel this too and probably more so. It's a good point though that if the whole world was DID then discussions of internal world's would happen. Also instead of liking or disliking a person it could happen that people like part(s) but not other(s). It's an interesting concept. The twins