Hi there. First off I'd like to say welcome to the forums! And second, we'd like to say a few words of encouragement and experience (what little we may have).
First off it seems whomever is the host is the one who made the last post. As the host of my system I understand the immense feeling when hearing everyone talk or argue at once (though I've not had as many voices as you listed). Based on what you've said it seems you're still getting used to your system, if this assumption is wrong feel free to correct me. It can be very scary, and intimidating when trying to keep order of everyone, especially when one or more wants to be in charge of everyone else. Taking your time and figuring out the best way to run your system is the best thing you can do. This could be anything from getting to know each alter better as a person, to giving different alters different jobs either in the inner world or outer world. What works best for your system only you all will know over time and practice, don't rush it and everything will be fine. Akane and Anime also would like to say some things but we're currently so tired that only Anime and I can currently communicate at the moment.
~Alex
Hello. This is directed at 'Jake' I believe it was? Whomever seems to be trying to dictate your inner world. Take it from someone who has been in your shoes, I tried to dictate our inner world and make all the decisions on who did what and who was most important. Calm down and take the rational approach, trying to dictate everything yourself will only lead to hurting your host and turning the others further from you. If you approach things logically and with diplomacy you can still help lead things without creating more chaos. If you don't want to take my advise so be it, just be ready to accept whatever happens due to your actions.
-Anime