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Postby Ponyta » Fri Aug 31, 2018 2:33 am

Hello everyone- my name is Weirdo- I'm one of the protectors. I was wondering if I was allowed to say something in the post for littles or not- since well I'm not a little. I'm just asking because Blue has been looking at that post for quite some time now. I saw she finally got the courage to say "hi"- but she is very scared to open up to people- due to what happened in the past. She's afraid she'll get hurt again. I can tell she really wants to talk- so it is her wish- but yet she is scared. She feels very lonely. It's sad- just asking because I wanted to try to help her. Please let me know.


Like all that I want to say is a conversation starter- like she really likes Pokemon for example. Just wanted to mention something she likes and ask if anyone else does. I figure it would help her open up somewhat easier if they were talking about something like that- until she knows them better.

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Re: Question

Postby birdsong87 » Fri Aug 31, 2018 9:19 am

hey Weirdo, would it help if Blue told you what to write and you type it for her? We've seen other Bigs do that for Littles before. They often say "Hi, this is X typing for Y"
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Re: Question

Postby ItsJustUs » Fri Aug 31, 2018 11:15 am

Hi blue I'm lilly
Lilly is 5 and a half and her likes to color does blue like colors?
What do you look like in the inside world? I dont like that the outside doesn't match the inside so lilly doesnt look at mirrors because they dont see lilly. Daddy says its otay cause he sees lilly
Delilah types for lilly and lilly tells lilah what to write.
Do you wanna be lillys friend?
How old Blue?
Lilly 5 and a half
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Re: Question

Postby KawaiiKitty » Fri Aug 31, 2018 12:14 pm

I think typing for her is a good way to her started
But I don't think it'd be a problem to type out things about her, if you think it'd encourage her

Our little ones at least wouldn't have a problem with it. Don't know about other systems.

Maybe if you say something in the protector chat? That way other protectors can ask their systems?

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Re: Question

Postby Ponyta » Fri Aug 31, 2018 7:48 pm

Thanks y'all for your answers. Those are good ideas.


ItsJustUs wrote:Hi blue I'm lilly
Lilly is 5 and a half and her likes to color does blue like colors?
What do you look like in the inside world? I dont like that the outside doesn't match the inside so lilly doesnt look at mirrors because they dont see lilly. Daddy says its otay cause he sees lilly
Delilah types for lilly and lilly tells lilah what to write.
Do you wanna be lillys friend?
How old Blue?
Lilly 5 and a half
Have to go now. Bigs need to do stuffs
By!



Hey Lilly. Blue is 8. She loves to color with Mary who is 5. Blue doesn't like that the body looks older than she is- Mary on the other hand is very care-free. I'll tell Blue that you would like to talk. She's with Mary right now.


I was thinking about it- actually Mary could maybe help give Blue some confidence to write on there. I could help co-write/supervise- if needed- but otherwise I would stay out of it.

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Re: Question

Postby ItsJustUs » Wed Sep 05, 2018 2:04 pm

Ponyta wrote:Thanks y'all for your answers. Those are good ideas.


ItsJustUs wrote:Hi blue I'm lilly
Lilly is 5 and a half and her likes to color does blue like colors?
What do you look like in the inside world? I dont like that the outside doesn't match the inside so lilly doesnt look at mirrors because they dont see lilly. Daddy says its otay cause he sees lilly
Delilah types for lilly and lilly tells lilah what to write.
Do you wanna be lillys friend?
How old Blue?
Lilly 5 and a half
Have to go now. Bigs need to do stuffs
By!



Hey Lilly. Blue is 8. She loves to color with Mary who is 5. Blue doesn't like that the body looks older than she is- Mary on the other hand is very care-free. I'll tell Blue that you would like to talk. She's with Mary right now.


I was thinking about it- actually Mary could maybe help give Blue some confidence to write on there. I could help co-write/supervise- if needed- but otherwise I would stay out of it.

-Weirdo


Why is hers name blue?
lilly doesnt like mirrors cause the outside doesnt look right and i hate it that i dont look right on the outside
daddy says its otay cause he sees lilly and knows
whats mary and blue looks like
lilly is small and has short black hair and green eyes and freckles but i hate lillys freckles
and i have stuffed animals i have a wolf named beastie and he protects me and i have a pink and blue dog named amelia pepperment and i have a rainbow llama named george the wonder llama and i have a little blue pony named larry and i have steve who is a unicorn kitty and larry and steve are friends for george
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Re: Question

Postby Ponyta » Thu Sep 06, 2018 2:46 am

Why is hers name blue?
lilly doesnt like mirrors cause the outside doesnt look right and i hate it that i dont look right on the outside
daddy says its otay cause he sees lilly and knows
whats mary and blue looks like
lilly is small and has short black hair and green eyes and freckles but i hate lillys freckles
and i have stuffed animals i have a wolf named beastie and he protects me and i have a pink and blue dog named amelia pepperment and i have a rainbow llama named george the wonder llama and i have a little blue pony named larry and i have steve who is a unicorn kitty and larry and steve are friends for george
bye bye
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Hey Lilly, Blue is sad a lot- plus she is scared to write. She really wants to talk- but it is hard for her. She really likes different shades of blue crayons and purples. Mary has blonde hair and blue eyes. She loves wearing dresses with flower designs. Blue has light brown hair and brown eyes. Blue looks like a younger version of Freedom- who's 14. Mary and Blue love stuffed animals too.

It's really cool you have all those stuffed animals!

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