I am Janus and Hi

Hey; just wanting to let you know that I used to be a really destructive alter. I didn't give a s*** about this system's longterm wellbeing too much; it was all about the moment, and damn the consequences. I would go out looking for a fight; ready to go; ready to do who-knows-what.

Well, they worked with me. The internal self-helpers; one of whom is probably a future or past version of me, actually. They let me know that I am loved, I am a part of this system; I have a place, a home... acceptance.

So I do not ever, EVER want to hurt anyone in this system, or anyone. I will still remain a strong defended in case some other-bodied twit decides to try hurting us, or is endangering another-bodied person, and still hate government and rules and restrictions but it can be done; I was hateful and probably evil by society's standards, but I now have a place and acceptance for who I am, in all that that encmpasses (which is pretty radical in many ways; I don't even accept having a fixed gender,) and it is probably very true that your alters which are problematic might be able to be reasoned with, accepted, helped to heal, etc. I have been dragged through the dregs of misery in this lifetime and rather than turn the hatred I felt for my captors and abusers into further abuse by attacking others... I sit back and enjoy peaceful moments and want to continue to be a part of this system and world.

Thank you for reading; I do not come around too much for... who knows-why reasons... but thanks.

It's awesome to hear for you and your system. No doubt it was hard work, so super achievements!

Jules (in the Albion System)

Janus, thank you for sharing. You and several others are an inspiration that helps keep me motivated when working with the ones in my wife's system that are more "difficult and abrasive".

Hi.
Thanks for posting.
We have one who was similar in our system. And she's also worked really hard to change.

Best of luck.

You should check out the protectors thread. You might like it there.

D

Hi, that's fantastic. We can relate to what you're saying alot there. Blessings.