HOW TO LEAVE?

ok so Kit wants to leave as there's been no reply to her last post that she posted sunday though over 200 looked at it no-one bothered to answer to even acknowledge her achievement. so she feels this proves nothing has changed since the 80's If she does 'come out' as herself she only get bullied or just ignored as she doesn't even exist anyway so says there's no point on us been on this board anymore.
It's safer and more satisfying to live in a fantasy world.

Such as a shame as she was really considering the possibility of living in the real world as herself again after all these years. She's gone back to fantasizing about WW3 and her chance to disappear.

I doubt we'll be back so you may as well delete this account anyway

Sioux & Kit

I'm sorry to hear you feel that way. I know it can be disappointing when you don't get the response you want online, or with others. My only advice would be to try again, and keep trying, when you feel able.

As an insight to someone who replies, I thought I'd write about how we do it:

So to have time to read this forum things need to be going quite well and smoothly that day, and a few days previous. This means we can stack up enough free time to have a look at the forum and read a few posts. For us, its not a major priority, and house-work or paid work comes first. It's also not fully 'relaxing', so we don't like doing it before bed or anything.
It can also be hard to think of a reply and what to say, as we have to be 'switched on' enough, and someone needs to be 'out' or within reach to say something useful. This happens frequently, but not every time we go on the forum.

I think its a part of the challenge of a DID forum, that those replying as well as those posting find it a challenge. Things can be so 'up in the air'!

I hope that you aren't too upset, and can see that there are safe places to share your thoughts.

Good luck to you!

Lucy - Albion System

I wanted to let you know that I read your post. As an SO I try to stay out of the way unless I think I can be of help.

It was good to hear of your progress. Working things out walking the dog was a nice step. Very brave to stay in place with a short encounter and a backup plan to say that your dog isn't good with other dogs.

I just read it (again). It does sound like great progress. I think when I first read it on Sunday my thought was that it sounded like you were doing well and just recording what had been happening, perhaps for future reference. It didn't sound like you were asking for any particular response.

Maybe if you want feedback right away it would be good to ask a question or just say that you're interested in what people think of what you wrote because you're feeling proud of what you did. I definitely wouldn't take it personally or as some kind of judgement on what you wrote.

Hi

This is Thea didn't realise Kit has posted another besides the progress one...in a bit of a strop it seems at the time! Apologies!

Personally I (Thea) don't want to leave and it's great to just have one place where I can explain another alter did something and everyone understands without the other person thinking I'm mad or just incredibly moody!

Is there a way to change the account name or would I have to start a new account?

Thanks and apologies again!

Thea

TheGangsAllHere wrote:I just read it (again). It does sound like great progress. I think when I first read it on Sunday my thought was that it sounded like you were doing well and just recording what had been happening, perhaps for future reference. It didn't sound like you were asking for any particular response.

Maybe if you want feedback right away it would be good to ask a question or just say that you're interested in what people think of what you wrote because you're feeling proud of what you did. I definitely wouldn't take it personally or as some kind of judgement on what you wrote.

Yes the first post I typed was my intention as I did feel we were making some progress. I didn't realise Kit had added to it and not sure where Sioux sprang from! Obviously Kit took my idea of imagining herself as a grown woman to a new level! ..wasn't expecting it to happen that fast! as usual she does nothing by halves!

I think Kit and I need to go back to the drawing board so to speak and work out which part of the plan was possibly misunderstood by 1 or both of us. Either way I'm taking a break while I sort out a possible toothache/abcess issue but I'll come back as myself (Thea) later.

Thea