Clothing/Dressing For your Alters

NyxX wrote:It could but are you sure you know who left the tabs on your browser open? Or any other things that's been happening that you don't remember doing? Maybe try a mix of both.

That I don't know… I know it's likely Pixie or Katya… they are the ones that always get on me about how I should do morning workouts and all that… Katya is likely the tabs culprit, being as skorts are tiny skirts in appearance and that's a very girlish thing. Also, some of them were "capris skirts"- skirts with capri leggings attached. Katya's a tights & leggings girl, to a silly level at that… 

I am certain, that in a general sense, many of the things that I am unaware of that have happened are likely are from any of the three most vocal/commonly seen ones. I don't think all of it was just one. You make a good point there.

I guess maybe a note to all of them or a short one to each of them is probably a better approach. Thanks for bringing that up, something I hadn't quite considered.

Hi !

Our body is female but on 12 alters, we've got 8 boys, 3 girls and me. I'm agender, even if I use female pronouns I'm kind of the "white sheet" where alters put their gender on.
I will not call ourselves "trans-gender" because it would mean we care about the genre of the body, and none of us do, but the system is mainly male.

We feel uncomfortable with female clothes. We prefere man clothes. That upset my mom a little bit when we run to the man section of shops without even really looking at female clothes xD We (mainly Alexis) even stole my brother's t-shirts and sweat shirts when he became too tall to wear them.
Our body language is a mix between male and female habits, that can make some people feel uncomfortable, specially men.
But thing is, we've got three girls inside, and before, they were four. So we made compromises and have some t-shirts and female shirts. We were rarly wearing it, but now I've merged with one of the girl, I'm more active with making the body looks a little bit more feminin, and that makes the boys uncomfortable. They feel like they are cross-dressed (none of us say it's something bad, just that it feels weird), but they see that it makes the girls and I happy to have a feminin body that looks good in feminin clothes.

So we thought about some "rules".
We let the hair grow long, and the other girls and I can dress the way we want for special occasions, but in the daily life, we wear male clothes or things that are neutral enough to not make the boys feel uncomfortable.
And when we're at home and we know we will not go out, we just wear the first thing someone want to wear, not matter if it's a male of female thing.

The "not going out, so wear whatever" sounds nice. If my wife would be ok with that, it may be something I try to do if the others are insistent on SOMETHING to feel pretty or girlish in once in a while.

I also liked the idea of something subtle and discreet that they would know about but wouldn't cause too many unusual looks or awkward situations.

Thanks everyone for the input, I appreciate it.