Is it wrongbto want to stay an Alt thats more adjusted?

I havr two alts whom are fighting for dominance and I really need a strong sense of self right now and only one if then give me the stability and clairty i need....but i also NEED other alts with different abilities to switch in as well. And its not going smoothly. Lots of spliting and fusing. Were trying very hard for alts who have visual identities that cause a bit of a clash(theyre polar opposites in body) . we want main to feel safe and protected and NORMALish So this is hurting us.

It seems like we are all on the same page but...some alts are way more adjusted than others. Abd some visual identities clash.


Main needs these two different visual identities for two different reasons. But shes put in a position where she needs to pick between either or for mental stability.

She feels awful that she has to pick between them and feels torn constantly. And it makes her feel like a bad person .

DId Is so strange lol

I don't think we could say whether it's wrong or not. The job every system has, is survival and if that's what you're all doing, then you're doing it right

Maintain internal communication if you can and explain to each other how you feel and why you all have to do what you have to do. Just make sure you keep healthy relationships between everyone as you would in a good loving family

I don't think its wrong to want that at all. Its like saying I want to be more healthy and you seem more likely to help with that.

However having a desire or feeling isn't necessarily the same as acting on it. Your parts make up your whole and the needs and wants they have need to be recognised.

If I try to ignore Nixie (which I am getting better at not doing) she bombards me which her fear until I can't ignore her.

I can't reply much right now because I've got to go. And I can't get online much either. I'd say more but for now I'll just say, keep going. You're doing well. Take it slow and your revelations will come in time. From the little bit I've read, it sounds like you are developing well as a system