Owen wanting a new friend

Hi, this is Owen again. I won't bash panther this time, but rather ask everyone's opinions on something. I like this guy in a group we go to when we have difficult times. Panther finds this guy attractive. And, I like to move forward and put things in perspective, like if we could ask him out, and start talking to him maybe being support. Panther wants to hide me, she's always numb, and I know I cause this. Finding like it but it's how panther protects herself from harm I may cause. I was thinking of giving the guy Panthers number if he ever needs to just talk to someone. Not against group rules. So it would technically be ok. Panther has one friend, that's busy a lot, and doesn't want to believe panther has any real problems with being DID. So she doesn't talk about it to her. Panther does have her dad to talk to. But he's not helpful in a sense, I don't let things go easy. I think this guy would be good for panther, and I'd like to know him better. Cause we both are lonely. Panther hides her feelings. But I express her feelings she tries to hide. I want to express that panther is not ok with this as I am clingy at first. And tend to scare off people. But ill try to keep things simple with support with the guy at first. I plan on giving him Panthers number and he can call if he ever needs to talk.