Thanks BeccaBee!
Our headaches can happen all over the place. The one that's been going on for a few days though is mainly on the left... but we also get like sharp brief icepick style headaches on both left and right. They're over so fast though it's never been worth taking anything, unless we get them in a big cluster.
The teen was looking at our ears last night to figure out which bit was the daith and if it'd be doable and how to do aftercare etc, and got distracted and ended up stretching our lobes another gauge.

She gets a bit squeamish about some piercings, but I kinda like it. There's other things I want to get pierced too but she
really doesn't want done lol.
Good point about the eyes... we wear reading glasses but they're just like, cheapo off-the-shelf stuff. Our eyes are pretty good for distance, but up close they're not great any more.
The trouble with headaches (and dizziness) is there's so many possible causes. Like, we used to supplement with magnesium, but stopped because it was expensive, but had to re-start because we were getting a lot of muscle cramps, which was why we started it in the first place. So maybe the headache has been because we were off magnesium a while, and we only just re-started a few days ago and maybe it hasn't kicked in yet.
Or maybe it's from dieting & intermittent fasting, could easily be electrolytes imbalanced, and that could also be magnesium, or could be insufficient sodium.
Or maybe it's stress.. or maybe it's another part inside who's stressed. Or upset. Or angry. Or whatever. So many possible causes and it's really hard to pick through and figure out what's what.
Especially when we can't remember when it started, and can't remember other events, so it's not like we could point to a day and say "it started then, and this also happened, so maybe they're related."
Violet 1