Our inside kids just sent her a sympathy text message (david speaking for all of the kids). david is especially good at acknowledging other people's losses.
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Re: Need Support
by MakersDozn » Wed Jul 18, 2018 6:15 pm
Our T's daughter passed yesterday morning.
Our inside kids just sent her a sympathy text message (david speaking for all of the kids). david is especially good at acknowledging other people's losses.
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Our inside kids just sent her a sympathy text message (david speaking for all of the kids). david is especially good at acknowledging other people's losses.
MDs
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Notable: Charity 25 (oldest), Deborah 23, Drew 23f, Mary 23, Rachel 23, Laura 17.5, Allegra 17, Cass 17, shawn 16f.
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Re: Need Support
by MakersDozn » Wed Jul 18, 2018 10:02 pm
MakersDozn wrote:We are two days from closing on our new apartment.
Allegra's saying, "I got this."
Well, I don't "got this." And neither do several others in here.
Charity and others
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Re: Need Support
by Amythyst » Wed Jul 18, 2018 10:19 pm
Can you just let Allegra handle it? Or at least let her take the lead on it?
Sometimes we have things that we just defer to whichever one of us is able to deal with it or has the skills to handle it.
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Sometimes we have things that we just defer to whichever one of us is able to deal with it or has the skills to handle it.
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Re: Need Support
by MakersDozn » Thu Jul 19, 2018 12:38 am
Yes. My job is to sit there and look serious.
Thanks,
Charity and others
Thanks,
Charity and others
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Re: Need Support
by MakersDozn » Thu Jul 19, 2018 10:29 pm
We have the keys. And we're exhausted.
Charity
__________
We have to get a new refrigerator. The one that's there is a leaky, filthy piece of crap.
$$$ Cha-CHING! $$$
Laura
Charity
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We have to get a new refrigerator. The one that's there is a leaky, filthy piece of crap.
$$$ Cha-CHING! $$$
Laura
Body cis ♀ (1962). Realized 1996 that we're multiple. System of 47, all cis: 42 ♀, 5 ♂; 17 littles (0-7+), 9 middles (8-11+), 14 teens (12-17+), 5 bigs (18+), + formless yin/yang.
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Re: Need Support
by birdsong87 » Thu Jul 19, 2018 10:48 pm
\o/ for keys!!
(and Maya who has no clue what money really is goes \o/ for getting a shiny new fridge. you can get cute little magnetic things to go with it)
(and Maya who has no clue what money really is goes \o/ for getting a shiny new fridge. you can get cute little magnetic things to go with it)
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Re: Need Support
by MakersDozn » Thu Jul 19, 2018 11:18 pm
Hi L and Maya,
Yup, we have plenty of fridge magnets. We've done some browsing online at Home Depot and at Lowe's. Unfortunately, we can't do too much shopping until we measure the space that the fridge needs to fit into.
Tomorrow we have the locksmith, the electrician, and the painter coming. The locksmith will re-key the locks, and the electrician and the painter are giving estimates. The plumber can come see us in about a week or so. We're going to use the same electrician and the same plumber that our father used. Unfortunately, we don't remember the locksmith that he used; it was only once.
Some of us wish that we could just wave a magic wand and have all of this done. It's tiring dealing with all of the details and trying not to get stressed about everything.
Thanks,
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Yup, we have plenty of fridge magnets. We've done some browsing online at Home Depot and at Lowe's. Unfortunately, we can't do too much shopping until we measure the space that the fridge needs to fit into.
Tomorrow we have the locksmith, the electrician, and the painter coming. The locksmith will re-key the locks, and the electrician and the painter are giving estimates. The plumber can come see us in about a week or so. We're going to use the same electrician and the same plumber that our father used. Unfortunately, we don't remember the locksmith that he used; it was only once.
Some of us wish that we could just wave a magic wand and have all of this done. It's tiring dealing with all of the details and trying not to get stressed about everything.
Thanks,
MDs
Body cis ♀ (1962). Realized 1996 that we're multiple. System of 47, all cis: 42 ♀, 5 ♂; 17 littles (0-7+), 9 middles (8-11+), 14 teens (12-17+), 5 bigs (18+), + formless yin/yang.
Notable: Charity 25 (oldest), Deborah 23, Drew 23f, Mary 23, Rachel 23, Laura 17.5, Allegra 17, Cass 17, shawn 16f.
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Re: Need Support
by birdsong87 » Thu Jul 19, 2018 11:35 pm
that is a lot. a LOT.
baby steps, one thing at a time.
I hate dealing with people...
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Re: Need Support
by MakersDozn » Thu Jul 19, 2018 11:42 pm
birdsong87 wrote:I hate dealing with people...
This.
[Rachel: People suck.]
Yes, it's a lot. Allegra is like the Energizer Bunny, but the rest of us need to slow down.
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Body cis ♀ (1962). Realized 1996 that we're multiple. System of 47, all cis: 42 ♀, 5 ♂; 17 littles (0-7+), 9 middles (8-11+), 14 teens (12-17+), 5 bigs (18+), + formless yin/yang.
Notable: Charity 25 (oldest), Deborah 23, Drew 23f, Mary 23, Rachel 23, Laura 17.5, Allegra 17, Cass 17, shawn 16f.
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Re: Need Support
by Lightfire » Wed Jul 25, 2018 5:46 am
We know our list of #######4 is long, but goddamn you've been through it. Just know that you're a badass in our eyes.
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