New year's eve

This thing is just such a roller-coaster sometimes ...

Recently I think an old alter has resurfaced (Aidan) who's the only one who has ever craved platonic physical affection and needs people around him ALL the time lest he get depressed. So, he fronts for a few days and becomes ridiculously close with one of my friends, who is gay, and was barely an acquaintance before.

Now this friend thinks that I'm his Super Bestest Friend In The Whole World, and that constantly touching him is a thing I do.

So Aidan then takes this guy out to a gay club on New Years, where he then apparently abandons the body to Riley, who isn't bisexual like Aidan and had to be surrounded by hot guys all night that had no interest in a female body Plus, the friend was trying to push him into kissing girls. Pretty sure he's not a happy camper right now.

And now this not-very-close friend, who Aidan has convinced is my soul mate, is sleeping on my couch when all I want to do is throw him out and go to bed! I hardly know the guy, or like him.

Anyone else on a weird roller-coaster right now?

hahaha OMG.

Well, surely not like that one. But, I went to the movies with a friend to watch the Hobbit. He invited my over to his house to make a Lord of the Rings marathon. He only survived the The Fellowship of the Ring, and he succumbed to big sleep.

We woke up really early to continue with the Two Towers. After half the movie (2 hours!, 4 in total ) his parents called inviting us to a nearby town. We go there, and in this town lives a big crush of his. So, after spending some time with his parents, we went to my friend's crush place.

We ended up having some cocktails, and staying there. (After some relationships with younger fellas, I had sworn no more younger guys). When I realize I'm making a striptease, and then a younger guy who happened to have a crush on me wanted to spend the night with me. Smart guy, nice guy, but no thanks.

Some how, I manage to just stay there, and rest, and hope that my friend and his crush were having a great time.

They did. And I kind of did too. Music, games, and well, ego burst.

Sea

haha your adventure sounds like the ones some of the others get up to that kinda thing could happen to leon for sure!
it was such a weird new years party. i mean, i loved it because there was a big drag show and lots of fun dancing. but i was kinda expected to make out with chicks and thats really, really not on. the hot guys all ignored me too cept this really fat dude at the end of the night that bought me a pie.
it was kinda surprising to be called someone's best friend when you dont know them all that well. Aidan makes friends super fast!!
everyones really angry at him at the moment. i dont think he was ever expected to resurface. theres a war going on in here.

Colher-6 wrote:the hot guys all ignored me too cept this really fat dude at the end of the night that bought me a pie.

OMFG man....that f******* freaks me out just thinkin about it....

Joe (16/straight)

MakersDozn wrote:
OMFG man....that f******* freaks me out just thinkin about it....

Joe (16/straight)

fat guys buying you pie?? LOL

Colher-6 wrote:haha your adventure sounds like the ones some of the others get up to that kinda thing could happen to leon for sure!
it was such a weird new years party. i mean, i loved it because there was a big drag show and lots of fun dancing. but i was kinda expected to make out with chicks and thats really, really not on. the hot guys all ignored me too cept this really fat dude at the end of the night that bought me a pie.
it was kinda surprising to be called someone's best friend when you dont know them all that well. Aidan makes friends super fast!!
everyones really angry at him at the moment. i dont think he was ever expected to resurface. theres a war going on in here.

haha Leon rocks.

I know what you mean Riley, have been there as well. Such a shame that hot guys didn't hit on you, they got confused because of the outlooks, and couldn't see beyond.

hahah yeah, it's weird to be called a best friend in that way. Humm... Maybe he also makes friends easily as does Aidan.

Haven't you guys considered an open relationship? To fulfill everyone's needs?

It sure was a weird night, but a fun way to end the year.

Sea

Seangel wrote:Haven't you guys considered an open relationship? To fulfill everyone's needs?

Sea

hmm. what do you mean?? i've been told i cant ever have a relationship unless its with one of the other "alters" or whatever. it's too complicated.
I don't even know if Aidan does make friends. i think he just hates being alone so he clings to people.

Leon says he knows he rocks. lol. he's not very modest

Finding a guy and a girl which would like to have an open relationship with you guys. A girl who both lesbian girls and straight guys in your system might want/love, and a guy who straight girls and gay guys might want/love.

It certainly is complicated, but maybe you can find what you want.

Colher-6 wrote:Leon says he knows he rocks. lol. he's not very modest [/color]

well i've been told that it can never work. Cad doesnt want to be close to anyone, Harriot wants a sorta guyish girl, Leon would cheat on whoever and get bored of them, and Elle would be horrible to them and use them.
Me and Ottoline are the only ones who would go for the same kind of guy. and she doesn't believe that we could find someone who would put up with all of the above. plus! i dont want an open relationship and i dont wanna share, so..... it would be way too awkward to be around a girl that one of the others bangs too.

I guess you're right. Too complicated.

Sea