Our partner

Lyndsay is getting a job

Dissociative Identity Disorder message board, open discussion, and online support group.

Moderators: Snaga, NewSunRising, lilyfairy

Lyndsay is getting a job

Postby PurfectlyFlawed » Mon Jun 16, 2014 4:08 am

Hey everyone! I am Lyndsay and I am out hunting for jobs,

any tips on how to make the others stay back?

create a schedule?

-Lyndsay
Tara Jo 35 years old./ protector/ female/ feminist/ Academic
Emily. 19|17 years old. Submissive. Christian. Abused.

Jessica took abuse. 28 years old sexual protector
lyndsay 26 years old. Social part.
PurfectlyFlawed
Consumer 2
Consumer 2
 
Posts: 59
Joined: Thu Jul 18, 2013 5:42 pm
Local time: Mon Aug 18, 2025 4:04 pm
Blog: View Blog (5)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: Lyndsay is getting a job

Postby Ada » Tue Jun 24, 2014 6:40 pm

A schedule could work if everyone's happy with it. Maybe asking everyone to look through the job description might help. So they understand why you'd like to stay out. If it's things they're not so good at or not so interested in.

Have you agreed anything like this before?


[Disclaimer- singleton, no DID experience.]
We think too much and feel too little.
 More than machinery, we need humanity.
 More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness.


Charlie Chaplain in The Great Dictator
Ada
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 10623
Joined: Mon May 28, 2012 9:47 pm
Local time: Mon Aug 18, 2025 4:04 pm
Blog: View Blog (35)

Re: Lyndsay is getting a job

Postby IainEtc » Wed Jun 25, 2014 2:03 pm

Hi Pur,

What we do in situations like that is give everbody a job to do. There are lots of things that need to get done. Find the place, get the route, check the clothes... you know. Even the little kids can draw pictures the night before about courage and success. Everybody is helping feels included and is asked for something. Everybody has something to focus on. We are less nervous that way and less likely to switch. We are a team.

Good luck. Hope you get a great job.

Iain + others
Iain - 14, Colin - 17, Evan - 7, Cody - 16, & Host - the adult out front

When they say 'be yourself',
which one do they mean?
User avatar
IainEtc
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 4717
Joined: Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:34 pm
Local time: Mon Aug 18, 2025 11:04 am
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Lyndsay is getting a job

Postby PurfectlyFlawed » Fri Jun 27, 2014 1:25 pm

Thanks! Everyone loves it! Lyndsay

Thank you, host
Tara Jo 35 years old./ protector/ female/ feminist/ Academic
Emily. 19|17 years old. Submissive. Christian. Abused.

Jessica took abuse. 28 years old sexual protector
lyndsay 26 years old. Social part.
PurfectlyFlawed
Consumer 2
Consumer 2
 
Posts: 59
Joined: Thu Jul 18, 2013 5:42 pm
Local time: Mon Aug 18, 2025 4:04 pm
Blog: View Blog (5)


Return to Dissociative Identity Disorder Forum

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 14 guests