how do I calm down our host??

We went to see our T today and she got host to come back. She says sometimes it's hard to know things that we don't want to know. And she said that DID is all about not knowing - which I knew already. Anyway host is better now and is managing things again. He's just learning some things about his family he wishes he didn't know I guess.

I'm trying not to yell at him for scaring us.

Iain

I think you're a liar, and I'm being nice. I can honestly say, "I did not say that", because I experience possession. People who have alters and say, "that wasn't me", are just liars, and if you're involved with somebody, you as your alter and your therapist are playing a game of manipulation. What you get out of it and what he gets out of it, I could scarcely fathom a clue. I don't think either of you are winning that game of manipulation, and of course, you will torpedo that association with your therapist, and that therapist could care less as long as he/she gets their money. They are lying when they say they are helping. The therapist is in a dissociative trance because they are controlled by their parents. Every family and every person who has not had their personality killed is brainwashed and manipulated because a child is the ultimate manipulator. The child will run into a room all giddy and try to be accepted because the parent really doesn't want anything to do with them. I can say this. A child of one years and six months is cappable of walking around a village or a forest, observing, and is capable of foraging, hunting, or stealing for food without any "parent" or "guardian" or "manipulator" over them. A

greenpurple wrote:I think you're a liar, and I'm being nice.

greenpurple, you are entitled to your point of view; however, I don't think calling someone a liar is supportive, specially when someone is asking for help, specially in this forum where we are reaching for others that have gone through similar things we've been through.

I've read you in the past, and I have respect for things you've written. However, I don't think that statement is supportive.