Alter up in arms

We posted a brief history of my main Alter here, http://www.psychforums.com/dissociative-identity/topic105998-10.html#p1187387

I had a dream the other night that Karogin had come back, and apparently switched during it. My Alt is angry still about me seeking outside help about the conflict, and now it's worse that I've apparently let my guard down after trusting my friend that the issue was resolved. This has happened before, where Karogin would go away for months, sometimes years at a time, only to come back in a dream and throw my alt into a rage. I'm not sure what to tell him though, since we both thought Karogin was gone for good this time. Any suggestions?

I guess now you know he is not gone for good.

That was remarkably unhelpful. :/

Anyone else?