Beutiful moments with my girlfriends parts

Hi Everyone!

I wanted to post some very positive and beautiful moments with my girlfriends parts as something positive about DID.

If you have had positive moments with your girlfriend/boyfriend I would love to hear your stories. Please reply if so…

I have recently started a relationship with my girlfriend about 4 months ago. Since we were friends for about 3 years she felt really close to me when we first started dating and right away told me about her DID. The next day after we started dating I met one of my girlfriends littles.

Since I have gotten to know all of my girlfriends parts/alters some really special moments have happened. I love all of her parts.

I have met my girlfriends two littles and now have a large collection of colorings from her 4 year old and 5 year old. The times I have been with her two littles have been really fun and positive. I talk to them on their level and love to see them. There have been times when they were upset and I can tell them that everything is going to be alright to make them feel better and on some special occasions I have hugged them which has been really sweet. One of her littles (Age 4) have said some very funny/cute things to me. One time she told me I reminded her of a big teddy bear. One time she asked how old I was and she said your old! Haha. One time I was rubbing my girlfriends feet and she switched very quickly to one of her littles. In an instant I felt really uncomfortable since who rubs a 4 year olds feet but she laughed and it was fine.

I once met one of my girlfriends parts that was out the least of all of them. One of the things she does is the housework when the apartment gets really messy. When I met her she told me that she was upset that the carpet was messy. I had already planned to clean my girlfriend apartment with her in the next few days. I told her alter about this plan and she had the nicest smile on her face

Some special and beautiful times have been with my girlfriends promiscuous alter. My girlfriend told me beforehand that she would offer to do some sexual things for me. I did something that none of my girlfriends partners have ever done. When her promiscuous alter asked me if I wanted something sexual I told her I would much rather kiss her. At first she was upset with me but the next time we met I asked her again if we could kiss and she took me up on the offer! I said “I want to know how you like to kiss”. After some very passionate kissing she then told me “That’s how I like to kiss” matter of factly, I laughed and told her she was so cute.

Things have almost always been positive with my girlfriends parts and it has been beautiful!

Just wanted to say the only thing I hate about DID is the traumatic life events that happened to the most beautiful women I have ever meet.

See Ya!

Closeandconcerned

That's beautiful to read! You sound like a wonderful boyfriend . Thanks for sharing

Positive stories about the DID? I can do that. So many fun stories... hmm.

A couple of months ago, I gave my guy a stuffed fox. Mostly to see him smile. I'm very awkward about giving gifts, I tend to be kind of self conscious about it. Thankfully, his personality solved the issue for me. All I had to do was leave the still sealed box from Amazon in my backpack when I knew I'd be with him, and he would do the rest. Sure enough, we were together maybe four hours (three and a half of which he spent asleep, mostly in my lap) and he was getting into the bag for something. He found the box, realized it was still sealed, and was immediately curious. He dug through the rest of the bag, emptying it half out to confirm it was the only box, then jumped up on the bed with the box.

"Why is there a sealed box? Why haven't you opened it?" He asked, pawing at the box.

"Because I know what's in it, no need to open it."

"But... It's still sealed. How can you not open it?" Confusion is evident, the idea of resisting such a tempting thing as a closed box foreign to him.

"Because it's not mine, it's not for me."

"But... It's a box!"

I was smiling as I watched him toss the light box in the air once or twice, then continue to paw at it, turning it over and shaking it like a little kid at Christmas. "You can open it, if you'd like."

No thought for the pocket knife in his pants he promptly began tugging at the tape, pulling until he pries up a flap corner. He spots fur and asks in a semi accusing, semi informative tone "Did you order a puppy? Puppies like air holes."

He's got a sick sense of humor, this is tame for him. I laugh and he continues to pry open the box, eventually revealing the plastic bag and plush fox inside. He knows immediately, us having discussed a week or two before that he misses his old fox plushie that he thinks is back in his old state. He grabs the bag out with his teeth and kneels on hands in hands and knees in front of me for a minute, holding the fox in his mouth like a cat holds a kitten, then bowls me over for a hug before tearing open the bag and cuddling the fox. I can't stop smiling, the sight of him cuddling the soft little plush is too dammed adorable. He declares the fox's name and retrieves the tiny pair of scissors from the little sewing kit in his own backpack to cut the tags off of the fox. I've never seen him use the sewing kit before, I had personally fixed the mixing button from his pants the weekend before after a couple months of it bugging me.

To this day, he carries the fox most of the time when we're out on the weekends. People around town recognize the fox and pet him on the head, or ask where he is when he doesn't have him. And the behavior in this story, right here, is to me pretty much the summary of his one primary alter. Him at his happiest, bounciest state, at least the happiest I've ever seen him. But I love them all.

This was really beautiful to read Thanks for this, it made me smile