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Mal.Daydreaming while trying to study?

Postby towardthesun » Wed May 29, 2013 7:51 am

Hi everyone, has anyone had maladaptive daydreaming tendencies while they've been trying to study? I am doing a degree and seriously cannot stop fantasizing and I have big things due in two days. I think the anxiety about that is making it worse.
My daydreams are of being a particular guys girlfriend and I just imagine all the scenarios we would be doing together.
A past psychologist of mine told me I have this obsession because I hate being alone and it's my coping mechanism. He's right. I feel like the stress of exams PLUS loneliness would be too much for me to bare, and also when I'm not imagining I feel depressed and can't bare that either.
Obviously I have to stop it as much as possible, but it's very hard. Has anyone successfully done it? I seriously can't go 60 seconds without daydreaming. I've failed a couple of subjects from not handing things in on time from daydreaming instead. Yikes!
Any advice or shared experiences?
Thanks :)
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Re: Mal.Daydreaming while trying to study?

Postby tribeofone » Wed May 29, 2013 11:25 am

"maladaptive daydreaming tendencies" made me smile. You wouldn't be the first student to think of girls all the time instead of homework :D

One technique I use is to address my thoughts directly and ask them politely if they could please go and sit down and be quiet for half an hour. That half hour I work, and then I ask the thoughts to come out for ten minutes and take any space they like.

My thoughts are usually just anxious that I'm ignoring them :-)
It shows an excessive tenderness for the world to remove contradiction from it and then to transfer the contradiction to reason, where it is allowed to remain unresolved.

G.F.W Hegel
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