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by lifelongthing » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:00 pm
Thank you Una+
So this means, to make sure I got it correctly:
Polyfragmented means alters within alters or over 100 alters or both?
Didn't know that. Thank you.
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by Una+ » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:10 pm
lifelongthing wrote:So this means, to make sure I got it correctly:
Polyfragmented means alters within alters or over 100 alters or both?
The person using a term can use it however they like to use it.
When I use it, I mean there is a complex nested structure. This almost always means there are alters within alters, or at least there are multiple levels of alters or multiple sets within sets. A simple and very common example of this is pairs of alters: in some systems, all alters come in pairs, twins, frequently "good" and "bad". My usage has nothing whatsoever to do with the number of alters.
Dx DID older woman married w kids.
0 Una, host + 3, 1, 5. 1 animal.
2 older man. 3 teen girl.
4 girl behind amnesia wall. 5 girl in love.
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by lifelongthing » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:13 pm
Thank you for clearing that up

Makes sense
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by ThatPerson » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:25 pm
So We'Re PoLyFrAgMeNtEd ThEn? ThAt'S WhAt It'S CaLlEd?
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Alexandr:(M)Logical distant and pragmatic.
Ace:(M)Emotionless and logical. Systems manager.
Binary:System programmer.
Daimen:(M)(Day-men) Eight years old, hurt and shy, but happy and easily pleased.
Fenris:Yearling wolf.
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by lifelongthing » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:28 pm
From what I understand, yes.
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by ThatPerson » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:34 pm
ArE OuR SyStEmS AlL GoInG To Be DiFfErEnT? I CaN'T CoMuNiCaTe WiTh MiNe. Do YoU KnOw HoW An AlTeR CaN CoMuNiCaTe WiTh ThEiR AlTeRs? I DoN'T ThInK ThEy CoMe OuT OfFtEn EnOugh To LeAvE ThEm ThInGs, BuT I'M Co-PiloT So... I DuNnO If ThAt MaTtErS...
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by lifelongthing » Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:38 pm
I answered this question (more or less) in Aubrey's other thread.
Quoting:
This is another pretty personal thing to a system. We don't have alters within alters (or, I don't know much about all the Lin's in here or what that means or what have you but I'm not jumping on it - it will reveal itself in time) but there are several here who are. Galaxies is one of them. Maybe consider taking Mags (of Ell, from the user galaxies) up on her offer to explain things to you (I remember her writing to you in a thread)?
They might work differently from you or have different inside rules than your system or it might be the same. Have you tried asking whoever is out of each system? Like when a part of JuDe is out, try to communicate with whoever is out by writing, talking or whatever means of communications that is available to you?
Considering they don't come out that often -- do you have any way of communicating with others on the inside? Like try to go to your inside world (inside your own world that you share with your system, if you have one) and see if you can talk to someone?
Do you have an ISH that could maybe help?
Just suggestions
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by ThatPerson » Mon Apr 15, 2013 6:28 pm
SoRrY. I DiDn'T KnOw ShE HaD AsKeD. We'Ll HaVe To WoRk On CoMuNiCaTiOn SoMe MoRe It SeEmS...
WeLl I MaDe The WoRlD InSiDe ThAt AlL Of Us "AlTeRs" ShAre. (AcCePt AuBs sHe DoEsN'T CoMe In OfTeN.) AnD I DoN'T KnOw If I HaVe OnE In My OwN SyStEm. It SeEmS OnE Of My AlTeRs CoNtRoLeS ThE ChAnGiNg Of ThE WoRlDs FlOwErS AnD WhAt NoTeS ThEy HuM BaSeD On My MoOd AnD WhO'S ClOsEsT To Me. BuT I DoN'T KnOw If I HaVe OnE In My OwN HeAd.
ThAnKs FoR ThE SuGgEsTiOnS. I'Ll GiVe Em A TrY.
AnY OtHeRs?
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by lifelongthing » Mon Apr 15, 2013 6:31 pm
It's fine

This is going to sound stupid but have you tried something as simple as talking to the flowers? To see if the alter is question notices? Like ask questions that have to do with feelings and see if he/she answers with the changing of the colours etc?

Probably stupid but I mean, can't hurt to try
I hope you figure it out

-- Mon Apr 15, 2013 6:33 pm --
Hi JuDe

yOu PrObAbLy DoNt ReMeMbEr Me I WaNtEd tO sAy Hi Im SiA We wRiTe In tHe SaMe wAy
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by ThatPerson » Mon Apr 15, 2013 7:22 pm
NaW I HaDn'T TrIeD ThAt... AuBs ToLd Me AbOuT HiM, BuT FoR SoMe ReAsOn I PrOmPtlY FoRgOt...
I'Ll TrY ThAt.
AnD YeAh, I ReMeMbEr YoU SiA. FrOm ThE LiTtLeS ThReAd. HoW ArE YoU?
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