Lashing out *trigger warning*

Worried
My protector Barry.
Lashed out sat. Are partners new alter many of us don't get along with.
She was being flirty with a friend who we have made it clear we felt uncomfortable her being around before. So I guess to Barry it looked like she was trieing to mess with us and hurt are feelings.So she left for a part of the evening but returned. And kept doing the same thing so Barry got angry and got in a arguement with her. Are friend left the vicinity to 'let us sort it out'. She started calling names and got really angry as well as Barry. Aswell as she kept hinting she wanted Claureshia out through out the night which feels like "Hey I don't wanna hang out with you so I'm gonna flirt with your best friend". Barry got so angry at her he grasped her shoulders dug his nails he was fighting his angry I could feel it but he dug his nails in so deep it left marks. Claureshia Immediately switched out sending her sedate through the body and Barrys. I'm not sure How to feel should I be angry at him for hurting someone. Even though in a sense he felt provoked very provoked. he even said.
"It'll teach her next time not to be such a cow or f*ck with us"
Afterwards the alter was crieing and shaking Claureshia comforted her and didn't tell her the real reason about Barrys attack and said he will provoke you. Claureshia dissapeared and left me out to take care of the rest of the evening. Alcohol was a big factor but It doesn't excuse the violence we displayed. But he's never ever attacked without someone threatening to physically hurt us or someone we care about this was words. She got louder and angrier so did he.

Alcohol is very good at bringing out protectors and even flashbacks. Im sorry that this happened. Lashing out happens a lot for me usually when a protector feels threatened or a child has been hurt, its sounds like the other girl was really trying to get at you.

In situations like this its best to run as there are others out there who are not therapeutic and want drama. Its not your fault that there such people out there, so its best to let them be the ones who look bad. Not that you did anything deliberately.

As for Berry he will do stuff like that, He just wants you to be safe. Maby you can try to set it up so he knows that your not in any danger it it happens again. Hope Im helpful on the matter.