gone *trigger: many bad things inside, Littles please no*

the hot $#%^ is gone

LOL man, you really should have triggered that $#%^ up.

You should have seen the Host twitch trying to stop me from posting - freaking hillarious.
But then it made her giggle, she stopped struggling and figured: What the hell, let good old Maledict tell Isaka here he is not such hot $#%^ as he thinks he is.

All the posts here are valid. Even yours and mine here LOL
People get upset about different $#%^ and people help as much as they can.
I mean, seriously, quality not quantity. I am sure your Host will get more answers soon. People around here are really helpful, just give'em some time.

And I get that it shouldn't just be take-take-take, but dude, your own doorstep.

Bored now.
See ya.

i understand the frustrations, sometimes when the answers to frustrating questions aren't immediately presented, or you notice all the other replies some other threads get it feels like we/you aren't being heard. We are all being heard on here, and more often then not, our/your experiences shared are actually helping many people relate to/make sense of things themselves. While its frustrating not to get the answers we're all hoping to get sometimes, this forum is about networking, social interaction, sharing knowledge and knowing that we are all accepted.
I hope you find some peace in your frustrations. We're all here for you too Thinking of you guys.

PinkiePie wrote:the hot $#%^ is gone

Sorry to see you go.
Because that's what we really like about this place: Everybody's welcome.
I know Mal didn't make you feel like that but I guess you guys might just have a little too much in common to get along. Just guessing.

Hope you are okay for your Host and the Others to come back here. It'd be a shame to see you all leave, because like Mal said, I am sure given a little more time you'll get many more replies.

Familyof3 wrote:i understand the frustrations, sometimes when the answers to frustrating questions aren't immediately presented, or you notice all the other replies some other threads get it feels like we/you aren't being heard. We are all being heard on here, and more often then not, our/your experiences shared are actually helping many people relate to/make sense of things themselves. While its frustrating not to get the answers we're all hoping to get sometimes, this forum is about networking, social interaction, sharing knowledge and knowing that we are all accepted.
I hope you find some peace in your frustrations. We're all here for you too Thinking of you guys.

You make sense. Just seeing Laura waiting to 'connect' with more people, and uh...nevermind, you nailed it. Your post sorta grounded me, I am falling asleep.

LOL man, you really should have triggered that $#%^ up.

You should have seen the Host twitch trying to stop me from posting - freaking hillarious.
But then it made her giggle, she stopped struggling and figured: What the hell, let good old Maledict tell Isaka here he is not such hot $#%^ as he thinks he is.

All the posts here are valid. Even yours and mine here LOL
People get upset about different $#%^ and people help as much as they can.
I mean, seriously, quality not quantity. I am sure your Host will get more answers soon. People around here are really helpful, just give'em some time.

And I get that it shouldn't just be take-take-take, but dude, your own doorstep.

Bored now.
See ya.

quality not quantity
a day at a time
it will get better
we are here for you

in case you didnae notice, the whole forum is one big trigger thread. you'd have read it anyway, so-
you know, takes one to know one. Don't bs the bullshi^^er. And no, people don't give more answers with more time. Countless threads flushed down. As for Laura, she did get help from two people out of this whole wide forum. It is a lot, maybe. But I felt she is sad she cannot write in a way that people would understand and want to respond to.She wondered what makes people respond more to some words, and less to others. I'm not approving of her or her RosaFinda persona and their 'understanding'. So I am gonna be mighty piss*d if they come back here with apologies for my OUTBURST, but I change the passwords etc etc.

I'm a girl btw. And a real hot $#%^, too. Your giggling host, she available for some *TRIGGER* cyberse4in? */trigger*.
the eye reads quicker, trigger warnings are not working. switch about, switcheroo.

we dont like it when thers fights please no fights

i'm so sorry little one
sometimes people release anger and i thought i was so angry but that was not a fight, just being all, uh, jab-jabby at each other.
i am just a bit older than you, well...about 13... I KNOW how it is when people fight around you, so please accept my sorry.

Familyof3 wrote:we dont like it when thers fights please no fights

Sorry - I didn't mean to scare you either.
No more fighting - promise Isaka and I are talking nicely now.
It's grown up stuff though

PinkiePie wrote:quality not quantity
a day at a time
it will get better
we are here for you

Point taken.

PinkiePie wrote:I 'm a girl btw. And a real hot $#%^, too. Your giggling host, she available for some *TRIGGER* cyberse4in? */trigger*.
the eye reads quicker, trigger warnings are not working. switch about, switcheroo.

Thought you sounded a bit girlish

Yes, people are going to get triggered one way or the other coming here, still though: Unless you want all the hot shits to answer your Hosts threads you might change the font colour to something that blends into the background, so you have to actually highlight to see. That way, if someone isn't up for the switcheroo they can choose not to.

Say if they were having a ###$ up day and the only contribution they could manage on that day was.. "we're here for you".
You know, some of the Others, that's all they need to hear sometimes.

The twitching Host actually thought I couldn't come out unless "she let me" LOL. She has this notion she is making all of this up. So I made it last.. thanks for giving me opportunity to prove a point while there wasn't anyone to see.

Forums are always full of platitudes. This one actually has a pretty reasonable platitude ratio IMO. You should see the DP forum we used to go to. *roll eyes* Lots of unique little snowflakes fighting for their individuality.

Seriously though, I bet some of the Others in your System come here for exactly that. Some people really get off on that $#%^. I mean, Mara (our Host) has been .. ah $#%^.. fecking words.. English isn't my first language.. pouring her little heart out about all her doubts. Barf-tastic. And yet, allowing room for that stuff can be useful to a whole System, even if it just helps one of you guys.

So, just chill and imagine.. ehem **violence
pulling somebody's fingernails out one by one by one

It's not all platitudes. They just stick out is all. Just give it some more time (yeah.. I know - but really. it's not all holding hands)

Teatime wrote:

PinkiePie wrote:quality not quantity
a day at a time
it will get better
we are here for you

Point taken.

PinkiePie wrote:I 'm a girl btw. And a real hot $#%^, too. Your giggling host, she available for some *TRIGGER* cyberse4in? */trigger*.
the eye reads quicker, trigger warnings are not working. switch about, switcheroo.

Thought you sounded a bit girlish

Yes, people are going to get triggered one way or the other coming here, still though: Unless you want all the hot shits to answer your Hosts threads you might change the font colour to something that blends into the background, so you have to actually highlight to see. That way, if someone isn't up for the switcheroo they can choose not to.

Say if they were having a ###$ up day and the only contribution they could manage on that day was.. "we're here for you".
You know, some of the Others, that's all they need to hear sometimes.

The twitching Host actually thought I couldn't come out unless "she let me" LOL. She has this notion she is making all of this up. So thanks for giving me opportunity to prove a point while there wasn't anyone to see.

Forums are always full of platitudes. This one actually has a pretty reasonable platitude ratio IMO. You should see the DP forum we used to go to. *roll eyes* Lots of unique little snowflakes fighting for their individuality.

Seriously though, I bet some of the Others in your System come here for exactly that. Some people really get off on that $#%^. I mean, Mara (our Host) has been .. ah $#%^.. fecking words.. English isn't my first language.. pouring her little heart out about all her doubts. Barf-tastic. And yet, allowing room for that stuff can be useful to a whole System, even if it just helps one of you guys.

So, just chill and imagine.. ehem **violence
pulling somebody's fingernails out one by one by one

It's not all platitudes. They just stick out is all. Just give it some more time.

i'm totes zoning out and can't do anything except browse this forum
well i could but i got curious why I am here with a sword.
i get the color blending with the background (thanks for NOt pulling my nails, I have a sword so like, i really am unapproachable) yeah i get the we r here for u
My Laura doesn't believe in us, her princess RosaSchminda is doing the work, Laura just goes from day to day weaker and weaker and I know she has always felt rejected and I thought she may feel rejected here, too, I got so f8c8ng angry but then I read one thread and then a response and i feel like crying.

Is your Host paying attention now? I am curious very much. If that's not much to ask. (I think Laura cannot hear me, I feel so in control and fully aware. I am giving her 'well deserved time out' haha. Or, not funny?)

PinkiePie wrote:Is your Host paying attention now? I am curious very much. If that's not much to ask. (I think Laura cannot hear me, I feel so in control and fully aware. I am giving her 'well deserved time out' haha. Or, not funny?)

She is trying. *roll eyes*
She back slid the other day (she finally agreed to therapy which we were hoping would help with the denial.. but so far.. no cigar) and I ended up posting an ultimatum for her to own up to the T.

Core (our Ish) thought I was being imature about it but it wasn't the message he took issue with, just the method. It got her thinking anyway.

I think it'll help but it seems to be a one step forward two steps back scenario.
Patience my a*s



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Oops. Did you mean right now?
She is always around, just slips into the background a bit.. feels her "lack of agency feelings". She is trying to learn to "just let it happen" because it's the struggle that really wears her out.

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That said, can't sense her for $#%^ right now.