Making progress with traumatized alter

Very true.

Thank you for your support

We have been making amazing progress lately with one of our most traumatized alters.

We have been able to be co-conscious with her to a much bigger degree, which is helping a lot.
Growing up, all she was out for 'trigger* was the most serious torture *end* and nothing else. Absolutely nothing else. Then when we starting coming out because of triggers around our SO she has over the last year started seeing those things don't always happen when she comes out. Because of this some of the smallest kids have been able to be co-conscious with her to a degree. Now lately, our system manager has been able to be fully co-conscious with her in the body.

This has allowed her to stay in the body for longer periods as well as also being able to experience good, healthy experiences with our SO. She has gotten a tiny stuffed bunny she adores and carries around and she has started dating our SO. They have known each other for a year now and she is very communicative even though she doesn't talk or make a single sound (it is really extremely unnerving really to see her run outside for instance when it doesn't make a sound). While she still has a problem owning things and will give what she gets to other alters, she still engages with the items and as such is getting lots of bunny cuddles and will sit next to the dr seuss book she own(ed).

It is amazing to see someone marvel and the most tiniest of details in the world. She saw a picture of a Chinese lantern and spent hours with tears in her eyes just taking in the beauty of it. This is progress - this is showing her that life can be meaningful and beautiful and that she can live it with dignity. If you're somehow seeing this: know that we care about you and we are trying our very best to keep you safe. You are loved.

wow hun, that s great news!

I m glad you made so much progress

Youwow! So much progresses! You works so hard with her, and it pay off! She slowly learn not all of outside world is so scary. Us is impressed by all of the progress!

we are all very happy to hear about such great progress and great accomplishments and great healing and everything!




- cassie (age ?)

Thank you

It takes a lot of work but it's so worth it.

She has just spent a couple hours fronting while watching a dinosaur movie (she likes princesses and dinosaurs and she got to touch a disney activity book that has lots of sparkles on it (she's mesmerized) It's good to show her what like can be like.

<<We have been making amazing progress lately with one of our most traumatized alters.>>
Nice job!! Great to see your gentleness and persistence in working with her..
xxoo

Thank you
The ones mentioned in this thread are E.L, R & A. All three have been severely traumatized and really do need our patience, understanding and support. All three have had marked progress and that really does make it all worth it

Progress gives me hope.

I had an unfortunate meetin with an abusive alter. I know he needs help as anyone else but it went rather wrong.
Well, for me, not for him. He sbetter now.

I m glad for your progress. It means I can get somewhere too.

I'm sorry to hear that Nina11 - I read something about that.
I'm glad he found some healing though. The more everyone heals the more you can heal too, I think.

You absolutely can get somewhere too