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Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
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Re: Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
by DarkDreamer19 » Mon Mar 04, 2013 2:28 pm
WE know how you feel we all feel the same about the boyfriend, we like it a lot better when it was us, you know?
Kimberly - 21 - Host - (( † Tainted Dove † ))
Kohaku - 19 - Protector
Angel - 25 - Protector
Vex - 21 - Ghost
Raven - 19 - Abuser
Vincent - 18 - Abuser
Axel - 18 - Abuser/Protector
Rosie - 7 - Abused Child
Alice - 13 - Abused Child
Suffers from: schizophrenia, abuse, learning Disableity, DID, and MDD
Kohaku - 19 - Protector
Angel - 25 - Protector
Vex - 21 - Ghost
Raven - 19 - Abuser
Vincent - 18 - Abuser
Axel - 18 - Abuser/Protector
Rosie - 7 - Abused Child
Alice - 13 - Abused Child
Suffers from: schizophrenia, abuse, learning Disableity, DID, and MDD
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Re: Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
by user110867 » Mon Mar 04, 2013 2:35 pm
Yeah, because I treat her better than all of those people that she hangs around. I wouldn't leave her side under any circumstances, but she still won't run away with me.
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Re: Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
by Evanescent » Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:29 pm
I know how that is, maybe give her some time, that's what I've decided to do with Rachael since she's still unsure how she feels about it all. Women have to think through every little thing, but I think in the end she'll come around.
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Re: Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
by tomboy24 » Sat Mar 09, 2013 12:42 am
have you tried asking her how SHE feels and what SHE thinks about all this?
she might feel and think and see things differently than you do.
and it's normal to get anxious without the host around. they're usually always around, or at least, they're around most of the time, and you get used to that, then when they're not around, it can be weird and scary and different.
this thread might be helpful to you, too:
-- Help with panic attacks?: http://www.psychforums.com/dissociative-identity/topic101340.html
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she might feel and think and see things differently than you do.
and it's normal to get anxious without the host around. they're usually always around, or at least, they're around most of the time, and you get used to that, then when they're not around, it can be weird and scary and different.
this thread might be helpful to you, too:
-- Help with panic attacks?: http://www.psychforums.com/dissociative-identity/topic101340.html
- cassie (age ?)
| Cassandra; Kat/Kataki; Rain/Riyoku; Shay/Shadow; L.C. & Luna; Ray; Cassie; Lynn |
| Prism |
| Marie; Valera; Phenix (Rebel); Dallas & Damone; Kyra; "Blank"; Bridgette; Cassidy |
| "Hannibal"; "Big Ryan"/Ryan; Keith/"Little Ryan"; Kuro |
| Hawk ; The Doctor |
| Aurora (mermaid), werewolf, silent one, black ponytail, Kichijoten, The Master |
| Maiingan |
| Prism |
| Marie; Valera; Phenix (Rebel); Dallas & Damone; Kyra; "Blank"; Bridgette; Cassidy |
| "Hannibal"; "Big Ryan"/Ryan; Keith/"Little Ryan"; Kuro |
| Hawk ; The Doctor |
| Aurora (mermaid), werewolf, silent one, black ponytail, Kichijoten, The Master |
| Maiingan |
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Re: Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
by DarkDreamer19 » Sun Mar 10, 2013 12:28 am
I know but sometimes its easier said and down, it is hard when our host does things for her own and we are stuck around without her, you know what i mean? She does what she can for us and we are happy with her and so on, I just love her, and I dont want to share her with anyone else and have my own body and steal her away from the world.
Kimberly - 21 - Host - (( † Tainted Dove † ))
Kohaku - 19 - Protector
Angel - 25 - Protector
Vex - 21 - Ghost
Raven - 19 - Abuser
Vincent - 18 - Abuser
Axel - 18 - Abuser/Protector
Rosie - 7 - Abused Child
Alice - 13 - Abused Child
Suffers from: schizophrenia, abuse, learning Disableity, DID, and MDD
Kohaku - 19 - Protector
Angel - 25 - Protector
Vex - 21 - Ghost
Raven - 19 - Abuser
Vincent - 18 - Abuser
Axel - 18 - Abuser/Protector
Rosie - 7 - Abused Child
Alice - 13 - Abused Child
Suffers from: schizophrenia, abuse, learning Disableity, DID, and MDD
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Re: Obsession with host?! (Trigger)
by tomboy24 » Sun Mar 10, 2013 1:16 am
i can imagine it's hard, but you have to learn how to accept and become at peace with what is, and what you can't change or control, and not dwell on the "if it was this way" or anything... 
*maybe trigger warning*
that and you're a part of her. we're all parts of the same person. all alters/parts make up the same person/personality, so technically, we are the same person as the host, we are the same person as all other alters, we make up the same whole together. we can't forget that or let it get lost in the fog of how different we may be or how separate we may feel. and we have to learn to accept that we are the same whole, we make up the same person, and technically, we are all the same person (just parts of the same person). it's not easy, and we might not like it, but it's true, and we can't change it.
*end maybe trigger warning*
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*maybe trigger warning*
that and you're a part of her. we're all parts of the same person. all alters/parts make up the same person/personality, so technically, we are the same person as the host, we are the same person as all other alters, we make up the same whole together. we can't forget that or let it get lost in the fog of how different we may be or how separate we may feel.
and we have to learn to accept that we are the same whole, we make up the same person, and technically, we are all the same person (just parts of the same person). it's not easy, and we might not like it, but it's true, and we can't change it. *end maybe trigger warning*
- cassie (age ?)
| Cassandra; Kat/Kataki; Rain/Riyoku; Shay/Shadow; L.C. & Luna; Ray; Cassie; Lynn |
| Prism |
| Marie; Valera; Phenix (Rebel); Dallas & Damone; Kyra; "Blank"; Bridgette; Cassidy |
| "Hannibal"; "Big Ryan"/Ryan; Keith/"Little Ryan"; Kuro |
| Hawk ; The Doctor |
| Aurora (mermaid), werewolf, silent one, black ponytail, Kichijoten, The Master |
| Maiingan |
| Prism |
| Marie; Valera; Phenix (Rebel); Dallas & Damone; Kyra; "Blank"; Bridgette; Cassidy |
| "Hannibal"; "Big Ryan"/Ryan; Keith/"Little Ryan"; Kuro |
| Hawk ; The Doctor |
| Aurora (mermaid), werewolf, silent one, black ponytail, Kichijoten, The Master |
| Maiingan |
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