Simple and hard trigger warning

Okay so I'm just going to spill my guts here I don't have the people around to get this out in the open with.sorry sorry sorry Relationships relationships. red for the other system.

now
Barry -Josh (going okay)
charlie,charlotte -Dellaware (bit worried)
chaz -Mason (chaz is busy helping in th mansion)
kimmy -Aron (???????)
Channelle - Loathsome (status unknown) (just don't go there)

past relationships
Charlie -josh (charlie cheated on josh with del)
Charlie -loathsome (no idea guessing because loathsome can be a mind-game playing sometimes pointlessly charlie is harmless )
Barry -jovial (crashed and burned due to cheating)
dominic -jesse (dominic flipped out and had to be K***ed)
Leo -(can't remember) (very blank)

I honestly don't mind but I have no freedom. weekends are built up someone misses someone all the time argh so buried under I just want to go out on my own sometimes. Have't even been able to go into the city because so much has to be atteneded to.
the relationships are considered completely seperate(alter to alter). I know there all different alters/people but 1 body I wouldn't mind everything being abit more relaxed. instead this alter has to be out to do this.The teens are curious and want to explore s*xuality in a healthy way and this to me isn't going to work. I'm trying to work on getting a one mind attitude so we can all enjoy being out instead of these rules. I've been hinting at it but it ain't hitting home. I'm not saying go out with different people but don't be shocked if a random teen pops out curious kind of idea.

we care about them all so deeply whether it's a relationship or not.

I'm sorry I just want to get it off are chest its a weight channelle has carried all on her own while I was gone.

We are having a lot of internal/external relationship issues too. Sometimes, when (host) is having difficulties one way or another with his relationships, it carries over into the inside-home. We had 3 similiar (issues) with 6 alters / couples while he was having issues on the outside. he didn't see he was having 'issues' but it's like his problems were manifesting inside as well....

So...if you had to evaluate what the 'issues' are...do you see any pattern? Do you see anything on the outside (host/primary out person) that might explain some things going on inside?

We had our teen girls really struggled with the fact they would never have an outside love because they are heterosexual but the body is male so that's 'impossible' to them....and no baby...etc... They have become more satisfied with their inside life as time has gone on...I might ask them if they have advice. The best thing that has happened is that we did have rules established that while my son is the primary person out, it is not ok for them to come out and kiss his girlfriend....it is a type of 'cheating' to my son and also caused jealousy in the system.

Anyway....just what we've experienced....hope some of that may have helped.