I am sensitive

I am thinking that many of you are sensitive and easily hurt emotionally. I was wondering if any of you feel attacked, disregarded, in the way, stupid, etccc. HERE on the forum? I find that my feelings get hurt so very much. I also don't think any one EVER intentinally tried to belittle me/hurt me in any way- ignore me. As a matter of fact I feel the truth is you all on this forum are SO very accepting and helpful, creative, caring, sincere and kind. As a matter of fact it is normal for me to feel invisible and to also have trouble taking in the positive natures of your posts by very sensitive and low self esteemed parts. Some parts are so black and white in their thinking habits or have a harder time seeing the positive meanings in life. I am very glad I come here. I am glad I have the courage to be on here. IT is amazing to know I am not alone. I ALWAYS get past those initial hurts and set myself straight. ALso If i ever seemed to hurt someone...never was that my intention. I only wish I had better attention to be able to read all posts...or more at least. And to check grammer and spelling of my posts. Thanks to all

Im sorry your feelings got hurt on here I think sometimes its confusing to know what people mean kinda messy to know how they mean what they say because text stuff cant show the feelings or how they mean it emotionally People here are really nice to each other but sometimes there is hurting too I dont think anybody here wants you to feel sad Im sure they want this to be safe and helping for you Im sensitive too I get hurt easy or I felt like everybody must hate me think Im stupid or annoying or silly I guess Sometimes Im too scared to write cus what i have to say is dumb even to me I think peole will get mad or laugh at me or I get scared to take up space and waste time for oter people with my talking Your strong to write this cus saying your feelings got hurt is scary vulnerable thing but you did say it and you should be happy your brave Its really also brave I think to write here just about anything cus theres many many secret things about being multiple your not supposed to say outside but saying it here is good and brave Im sorry your heart is hurting I hope your feeling good soon I give you hugs if you want them ok but if you dont thats ok too
Bye
kitty

Sometimes we get our feelings hurt too, but we try to remember that everyone is here for their own reasons and this is a place for healing I'm sure no one here wants you to feel upset or ignored or anything like that We sure don't. I agree with Kitty, this is very brave to write. I'm glad you're able to work through it and stay here since this is a good place for you

I can relate to feeling ignored, though it's probably all in my head. Sometimes I feel my advice gets overlooked because I don't know as much as everyone else about DID. What little I do post, it can only be on something I can be of help. I tend to be overly sensitive about stuff like that so even if it's not intended, or even actually done, I can get my feelings hurt.

So I know how you feel. But I also know you're right in saying everyone here is accepting and helpful, and boy are they nice.

I can relate to feeling ignored, though it's probably all in my head. Sometimes I feel my advice gets overlooked because I don't know as much as everyone else about DID. What little I do post, it can only be on something I can be of help. I tend to be overly sensitive about stuff like that so even if it's not intended, or even actually done, I can get my feelings hurt.

Little font as I am shy about writing this
Not the point but when I post I actually hope you (any of you really) reply to my posts because I think you seem very nice and a very down to earth kinda smart that I like. Sometimes I chime in with things I otherwise wouldn't because I'd like to talk to you but it'd be all creepy to go "hi, so.. what are you up to?" to someone who's relatively a stranger I am going to go pretend to sleep now while I blush

lifelongthing wrote:Little font as I am shy about writing this Not the point but when I post I actually hope you (any of you really) reply to my posts because I think you seem very nice and a very down to earth kinda smart that I like. Sometimes I chime in with things I otherwise wouldn't because I'd like to talk to you but it'd be all creepy to go "hi, so.. what are you up to?" to someone who's relatively a stranger I am going to go pretend to sleep now while I blush

lifelong, wronglesson, galaxies, thank you for posting. We all jsut want to be accepted and exist. thank you for saying I am brave. You are all couragous. Telling stuff can be so scary.I finally felt brave enough to post this poat specifically.
I love that saying safe hugs to all who want them...so that is wha t i say.

you're welcome.

I'm glad you were able to post this

lifelongthing wrote:

I can relate to feeling ignored, though it's probably all in my head. Sometimes I feel my advice gets overlooked because I don't know as much as everyone else about DID. What little I do post, it can only be on something I can be of help. I tend to be overly sensitive about stuff like that so even if it's not intended, or even actually done, I can get my feelings hurt.

Little font as I am shy about writing this
Not the point but when I post I actually hope you (any of you really) reply to my posts because I think you seem very nice and a very down to earth kinda smart that I like. Sometimes I chime in with things I otherwise wouldn't because I'd like to talk to you but it'd be all creepy to go "hi, so.. what are you up to?" to someone who's relatively a stranger I am going to go pretend to sleep now while I blush

Hi - I am pretty sensitive and therefore don't post! You are so brave to post often & I enjoy reading your posts and others too. I don't think it's creepy to say hi. I think about you guys during my day and hope everyone is doing okay! I am very empathetic when I see other's having a tough day, flashbacks etc. It's too bad we can't meet for coffee since everybody lives all over the world!

You are so brave to post often & I enjoy reading your posts and others too.

Aw, thank you

It's too bad we can't meet for coffee since everybody lives all over the world!

I so agree

I also struggle with the feeling of not being accepted. I always feel not accepted. I have so often been rejected. Or at least it felt so. Including on this forum. But I know it shouldn't be true.
This is a problem I have to work on - how do I actually know when people reject me? How can I be certain they aren't?