Is my T wrong?

Okay, my T has diagnosed me with DID a few months ago because of my alters, but ever since they haven't really showed themselves like they have before. They've been very much in the background, not fronting at all, only just assisting and speaking to me at times. That led me to believe that it's probably DDNOS and not DID, but I'm really not sure and I'm not comfortable discussing this topic with my T... we had a falling out and I haven't seen him since. Should I bring this up? He has never even met the others (Lilith, Liv and Gwen) and we never really discussed them before, so would it be really weird to start now? I really don't know what to do but I feel like this really can't be DID?

I don't think it would be weird. When I started with a new therapist after I deserted my old one, I gave her my complete history that I remembered, but RARELY did anything besides myself show to her. I've noticed it always starts small, with email communication, then it builds to in person interactions. I'm willing to bet that given time your others will show themselves, in whatever way they decide to. It's can INCREDIBLY frustrating to wait, I understand that, and at times I've been pissed off because it makes you seem like a liar, but you can't let that get to you. You just have to wait it out and stay confident that you know what is going on and it will show in time.

Hmm maybe they will come out again, but it's almost as if they're function has changed. Like they've completely changed in my life. It started out very gradually. At first, I would have total blackouts when they fronted and they felt so separate from me. Then, slowly but steadily, I became more aware of what was happening when they were fronting, even if I couldn't do anything. Even later on, I could co-front with them and now I'm at a point where I'm the only one who ever fronts, although sometimes I still perform actions that seem to be coming from them rather than me. I don't know if that makes sense. So maybe it's developed into something different? It's very hard to tell. but that would probably be something I have to discuss with my T and my T has been... less than civil with me, so I really don't know what to do now.