No option but suicide

I've had MANY meetings with the asshole and I've remained calm evry time. Calm isn't working. When I first reported the reaction to the guy even after my allergist agreed that it was an allergic reaction, he kept on about how it must be sojourn's syndrome. That's a kind of dry mouth that women get when they go through menopause. I was in PAIN as a direct result of this guys negligance and he just didn't care.

But the meeting got called off. I got a call from his office saying his wife got taken to the hospital. AIf he thinks this is going to get me to hold off he's got another thing coming. I don't give a $#%^ about the stupid bitch. If she's stupid enough to marry an asshole then she gets what's coming to her.

Okay, so playing 'Mr. nice/calm guy' wasn't working. Does your lawyer back the way that you're approaching all of this?

Just another question dude: Do you think that the thread title is suitable at this present time?; or have you changed from thinking like that (i.e. - "No option but suicide").

Kevin

Have you tried alternative,pain-free dentists?
Until then I'd say just try and find some decent painkillers.
Best of luck.

Okay, so playing 'Mr. nice/calm guy' wasn't working. Does your lawyer back the way that you're approaching all of this?

He said it sounded like I was on the right track. He said just let the guy know I'd make his life miserable if he didn't give me what I wanted. I really doubt anyone in a position of authority is going to do squat. People just don't give a $#%^.

Just another question dude: Do you think that the thread title is suitable at this present time?; or have you changed from thinking like that (i.e. - "No option but suicide").

Now it's more like murder-suicide. But I don't want to kill this guy. I want him to SUFFER.

Have you tried alternative,pain-free dentists?
Until then I'd say just try and find some decent painkillers.
Best of luck.

That's the thing - it's not pain exactly. It feels like I have a mouth full of chalk. I drink diet soda and suck on mentos until I feel sick. If I don't talk it is better. But I need to talk at work. Three years of talking as little as possible is getting to me. My life is on hold. I can't go look for other jobs in this condition. I can't date. I'm now getting sex from prostitutes. That helps a bit. But it's expensive and I need more money to fix this.

There's no telling how much more money this will take to fix. People at work are telling me to just have all 11 crowned teeth pulled. It may come to that. It's a terrible decision to make. I don't even know if I could find someone to do it. Dentsist act like I should just live with it.

If it'll make you feel any better,life isn't much better here but I don't want to go off topic;

You can drift a little off topic if you wish, AriesFire. I'm sure that Parador won't mind. After all, it's comforting to share how $#%^ our lives are because - if anything - it allows us to realise that we aren't the only ones suffering.

People just don't give a $#%^.

Yeh - ain't that the truth. Of course, you'll get people who will pretend as if they care, but then when you start getting better they feel jealous and will try to set you back down where you were. Jealousy & greed won't ever be abolished, so long as life exists.

Parador wrote:That's the thing - it's not pain exactly. It feels like I have a mouth full of chalk. I drink diet soda and suck on mentos until I feel sick. If I don't talk it is better. But I need to talk at work. Three years of talking as little as possible is getting to me. My life is on hold. I can't go look for other jobs in this condition. I can't date. I'm now getting sex from prostitutes. That helps a bit. But it's expensive and I need more money to fix this.

There's no telling how much more money this will take to fix. People at work are telling me to just have all 11 crowned teeth pulled. It may come to that. It's a terrible decision to make. I don't even know if I could find someone to do it. Dentsist act like I should just live with it.

Well of course,when they don't know what else to do then they say live with it.

Anyway,I've been in situations similar to yours. While not exactly in physical pain,I've been in similar emotional and financial pain.

I don't have a job or money but if you at least have a job try to stay there as long as you can,at least you'll have a means to pay for the further dental work. As far as having all the teeth pulled,that's something my friend just went through. She just went ahead and did it and got replacements,now she has no probs. She even found a dentist that was able to do it in stages and with little pain.

Good luck.

Chucky wrote:You can drift a little off topic if you wish, AriesFire. I'm sure that Parador won't mind. After all, it's comforting to share how $#%^ our lives are because - if anything - it allows us to realise that we aren't the only ones suffering.

People just don't give a $#%^.

Yeh - ain't that the truth. Of course, you'll get people who will pretend as if they care, but then when you start getting better they feel jealous and will try to set you back down where you were. Jealousy & greed won't ever be abolished, so long as life exists.

I'm glad you can see all of this. Maybe I should start hanging out on this forum more than my usual one,most people out there will lambast you and then step on you if they can sense you're a little weakened by life. People in pain,to which they have obviously no experience with so they opt to be cruel. That's mostly the reason I've become like I have.

Is the other forum one which is dominated by 'normal' people? They can be difficult to handle because - as you've implied - people on them have never felt such pain as we have. The ultimate kick in the teeth for me is when someone comes up and says that suicide is a sign of cowardice. How can they possibly know if they've never been even close to it? ... ...ignorant @@@@@@@.

I met with him this morning. It wasn't good. He actually put his arm around me when he came out to see me. I said get your ######6 hands off me. I showed him apicture of the metal things he put in and asked him what the ######6 idea was. He pulled out the chart and wanted to go over the whole thing. I wasn't going to do that. I had him give me the information on the cement. I checked and it claims to have no acrylic. He said I don't know what's going on with you and I said I'm in PAIN and I have been for 3 YEARS after what you did. I've got such a headache now. I've been looking up other materials. There's so much stuff and NO idea about what might be best. I'm not evenb exactly sure what the new dentist put in. He told me it was captek but that the ceramic was zircon. I've never heard of that combination. I'm really tired.