No option but suicide

by **AriesFire** » Fri Nov 14, 2008 4:51 am

Chucky wrote:Is the other forum one which is dominated by 'normal' people? They can be difficult to handle because - as you've implied - people on them have never felt such pain as we have. The ultimate kick in the teeth for me is when someone comes up and says that suicide is a sign of cowardice. How can they possibly know if they've never been even close to it? ... ...ignorant @@@@@@@.

Yeah it's difficult having to live such an 'underground' life...

The kick in the teeth for me is when people actually kick me when I'm down by telling me to 'stop whining' when I'm crying out for help.

And people wonder why so many people go on rampages...let's have some compassion people!

Parador wrote:I met with him this morning. It wasn't good. He actually put his arm around me when he came out to see me. I said get your ######6 hands off me. I showed him apicture of the metal things he put in and asked him what the ######6 idea was. He pulled out the chart and wanted to go over the whole thing. I wasn't going to do that. I had him give me the information on the cement. I checked and it claims to have no acrylic. He said I don't know what's going on with you and I said I'm in PAIN and I have been for 3 YEARS after what you did. I've got such a headache now. I've been looking up other materials. There's so much stuff and NO idea about what might be best. I'm not evenb exactly sure what the new dentist put in. He told me it was captek but that the ceramic was zircon. I've never heard of that combination. I'm really tired.

At least he's still acknowledging you...I've met women who have had possibly unneccesary hysterectomies and it completely knocked their hormones out of whack and they just wanted to kill the doctor! Perhaps once enough of that starts happening doctors will smarten up.

Anyway you mentioned metals it sounds like...that can be a factor in declining health. Once they start leeching into the body. I have the old mercury amalgam myself and that has been linked to numerous health issues,maybe even death!

There's a health site I go to,it's called curezone.com
They have answers for many health issues,maybe you can check it out and find the answers the docs aren't giving you.

by **Chucky** » Fri Nov 14, 2008 9:52 pm

How unusual... ...the curse that I used was edited-out by another moderator, but he/she didn't inform me about it; and there's you (parador) mentioning the 'F' word twice in your last post! :roll:

Anyway, I suspect that the 'arm around the shoulder' thing was an attempt to start off the encounter on a good footing. It makes me believe that he's either genuinely sorry for hurting you, or else he's worried about the legal situation that may develop (which I will say no more about).

by **AriesFire** » Fri Nov 14, 2008 10:05 pm

Chucky wrote:How unusual... ...the curse that I used was edited-out by another moderator, but he/she didn't inform me about it; and there's you (parador) mentioning the 'F' word twice in your last post! ).

I was wondering about that...I never usually see mods cursing,lol.
Although I don't curse in my threads on other forums,I'd probably be a good mod there except I get too heated and sarcastic at times;

by **Chucky** » Sat Nov 15, 2008 1:25 am

The way I see it is that I'm not a moderator here. I just picture myself as a regular member who has this slight extra power and responsibility. If I took the view that I was a moderator, I think that'd I'd lose focus on why I'm actually here (which is to get help myself and to help others).

Kevin

by **AriesFire** » Sat Nov 15, 2008 5:19 am

That's a good way to look at it. On the regular forum I'm on,which is mainly a travel forum,the mods can be somewhat biased and 'corrupt' if you do things like say you don't like a city and they're from there. Blindly prideful stuff like that :roll:

by **Chucky** » Sat Nov 15, 2008 9:32 pm

Hmm, I know what you mean, and it is just the neurotypical way of thinking: They let 'status' get to their heads and it affects how they approach their work. For example, I recently won a prestigious award here for my academic work, but I was very careful not to mention it too much to people. If someone came up to me and said 'congratulations', then I'd say: 'Thanks - it's nothing major at all really'.

Kevin

by **AriesFire** » Sat Nov 15, 2008 11:15 pm

Not too many people with humility nowadays.

by **Parador** » Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:47 am

Anyway, I suspect that the 'arm around the shoulder' thing was an attempt to start off the encounter on a good footing. It makes me believe that he's either genuinely sorry for hurting you, or else he's worried about the legal situation that may develop (which I will say no more about).

I think the guy's some kind of sociopath. There's no way he's sorry. When I complained about the pain I was feeling from the horrid metal crowns he put in he just said 'I don't see why they'd be bothering you.' That forced me to go to another dentist and pay $5,000 to get something decent put in.

He must have talked to his lawyer. He must know I can't sue him. I bet he knows exactly what to say to the regulation board to get off. Dentists will protect other dentists. One dentist said I was subconciously rubbing my tongue agaist my teeth and that was the reason it hurt, not the allergy. I'm ALLERGIC to acrylic and the CEMENT was acrylic, but the dentists came up with a reason why it just couldn't be anything they did. Kill a dentist for God.

by **Statix** » Tue Nov 25, 2008 12:04 am

I've spent 13k on all upper crowns so I can understand your financial agony. I'm wondering if you've considered having root canals on the teeth that bother you.

The general idea is that you are allergic to the cement which binds the crown to your dentin, which is porous to the pulp of the tooth. If you remove the pulp including the nerve via root canal wouldn't this ultimately remove the pathway for your allergic reaction?

It sounds like you need them on your front teeth anyway if they are becoming sensitive to heat/cold, I had to have two of mine done due to the trauma from the crowns.

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