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My friend bought a rope

Postby bobob » Wed Dec 05, 2007 10:12 pm

If that wasn't a cry for help, I don't know what is.
I have been friends with him for a long time. He has been pretty much depressed and down on himself for the entire 20 years that i have known him. Things got worse when his father passed and his luck seemed to continue to always be down. He was always looking for love and money in the wrong places and his life got bad.
He called me up one day and admitted that while shopping at Home Depot, he bought himself a strong rope. That's when I knew things were serious. Being that I am no longer living in the same state as him, I had to call on some buddies back home to help out. We arranged a bit of an intervention and confronted him to seek help. It was very difficult as he thought we were trying to turn our backs on him and lock him up instead of help him. But, he finally went into treatment. I really don't know that he got better, but at least he is still here with us today. He is still depressed and I just don't know how to help. I will say this... the A&E show Intervention has been an interesting look into the lives of people with all sorts of problems and shows how to work a successful intervention. Have any of you seen it? I wish this show had been on the air years ago when we needed the help in doing our own intervention, but at least we have it now. You can bet I will take their advice to heart in case we need to intervene again. Check out the site: http://www.aetv.com/intervention
You can watch the trailer to next week's show there.
It airs Monday nights on A&E at 9pm/8pm central.
Have you ever had to do an intervention?
Are you gonna watch the show?


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Postby jasmin » Thu Dec 06, 2007 8:10 am

Hi, bobob. Thank you for sharing this story with us. Maybe you could still let your friend know that you will be there for him if he needs someone to talk to, even though you don't live in the same state. That can be very helpful. Tell him that he is not alone.
Thanks for telling us about the show.
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Postby bobob » Thu Dec 06, 2007 11:52 pm

I will, thanks jasmin :)

I am going to try and get in touch with some of his friends over there and see if I can find out how he's doing.

I really hope people check out Intervention, it's such a great show and it's really helped me cope. http://www.aetv.com/intervention
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Postby jasmin » Fri Dec 07, 2007 8:34 am

That's great, bobob. Thanks again for telling us about that show.
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