Girl trouble

This girl i was in a relationship with told me she moved to my city around christmas. But made excuses to not come see me. Promising the next day for sure. Always somethin else coming up. Then said she had to move back home suddenly over the night, that her grandad was ill. About a month later he died. She was crushed, told me she would sleep in his chair and $#%^, askin if that was weird. i was there for her, consoled her.

A month ago a man contacted me named nick, I saw him on her list from facebook. So i told her, she flipped. Said he was an old ex, stalked her, that he was crazy and tends to contact her bf;s and try and break them up. He would most likely make up MSN convos and $#%^. He sounded nuts, i asked what he wanted and he never replied.

A couple weeks ago she was supposed to cone down. A window magiclly exploded at work, cutting her arm, she needed to go to the hospital and get stiches. They gave her tylonal with codine which she took, which she also knows shes allergic to. She got an allergic reaction and had to go back.

A week before that she got food poisioning, said they gave her a bunch of meds, the combo made her sleep for like 9 hours.

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Reality
-From the begining she said she wanted a relationship.
-From the begining when we were just gettin to know one another she was dating two dudes.
-She never moved to the city, her grandad was never ill and is very much alive.
-Soon after we first met she went on a date with some guy
-Soon after we were in a serious relationship and she was saying love, and we were talking about her moving in. She went "home" from my place by cab, where another man picked her up right after and took her to his place, they ###$.
-That man was the nick guy.
-Never had food poisoning, was out with who knows who.
-Window never exploded at work, it was an excuse like the food poisoning. She went and spent the weekend with another dude in my city.

I talked to the nick guy, he told me she was at his place, told me what went down. Told me she was sick at the time, which she was. We both almost said at the same time, she got me sick. He sent me some nude pictures of her to prove she was into him like that. They were my pictures, Pictures taken for me months before. She also sent to him after talking to him barely a week. Of course she denied it all. We had a three way convo where she called him a lier, called him a loser, told him to get a life and leave her alone. Told me he's lying and believe what i want, and tha ti'm the only one she wants. She later on in the night confessed it was true.

That nick guy was being ###$ around too, being told $#%^ by her, he had trust issues too and said that to her saying you lied to me?. She's all cold like saying "lol, yep". Then turning to me and saying i only want you. I feel sorry for him some, but i got no sympathy. He's 26 and she's 18.

This girl's been lying to me. She lied me into thinkin she was mature, into thinkin she was somthin she wasnt. I have trust issues. I got to trustin her. And she still says she wants to try and fix things cause i'm who she wants, wants a life with. She says the lying she cant help, she's got a problem. And she only lies to people she cares about.

I feel homicidal and suicidal. Yet i'm not stupid enough to do nothing. Yet i cant shake the bad feeling in my stomach, And the stress in my shoulders. I'm not sure what to do. I ended it of course. Yet i got a feeling like i still want to know her. Its hard after all that invested time, and emotion, and money. To trust when i couldnt before then have my hart ###$.

She also lied about past sexual abuse, She didnt admit. But he stories were full of holes. I mean big holes and stuff that just made no sense. I've been there, which is why i got trust issues. And was duped enough into sharing some $#%^. So that hurt alot too.

Not sure theres a question in there.

No question, no: probably not.

But if i had choice of continuing contact with her...
... or taking arsenic...

Gee, that'd be a tough. Two great, slow agonizing deaths.

Or, as my little niece likes to say, "No thanks. I choose life."

I have had simular proplems with a girl for the last 8-9 months. At first we got along great but she started telling other people we were going out before talking to me about it. I have problems trusting people so I wanted her to slow down. I tried to spend time with her and get to know her. Some times she would be touching me and tell me she was having dreams about having sex with me. The next day I would say hi and she would respond by saying do not talk to me. I got fed up with her treating me so different day to day and I left a message on her answering machine to leave me alone. We worked together and she some how changed " treat me the same all of the time or leave me alone" into I had sexually harrassed her. I live in an old house and the shower is in the laundry room. 4 days after being told by our superviser That I had sexually harrassed her I wasin the shower and I heard a noise and looked out and she was standing their. She calls me walks around my house knocks on my bedroom window but she will not talk to me. I got harrassed out of that job because she lied. I have went to the sheriff and talked to him about what can be done he said not much because she lives in a different state and if I see her around my house I can call but all they can do is tell her to go away. I have tried to say somethig to her but she just walks away. I wantd her to leave me alone before but it has went on for so long I want to talk to her and have explain why she is doing this. For some reason even after all the crap she has inflicted on me I still kind of like her.

You definitely have the ability to find a much nicer girl. She is definitely not the only one out there. She seems to be messing with you a lot. Try not to get angry. Just put more positive energy into finding a girl who is actually nice to you. Good luck.