Quantum physics? (TRIGGERS)

So we're all created from the Big Bang and that's prove enough that we're all made of energies and science has proven this. The law of attraction works with this basic fact. The fact is if you're energy is low and depressed as opposed to "normal" which would be the balanced mixture of light and dark then you're pretty much stuck in mud.

I've found now that my thinking has been like this for a couple years now, that I'm unable to connect to anybody. It doesn't help being so aware of myself and my feelings, I can't connect human to human and not only do I not really want to anymore, I can't. Who wants to talk to a dark energy that's not interesting?

The thing is, how if depression can be clinical then can you do anything in life besides the absolute basic survival needs that doesn't involve the dependence on other people? If you've pretty much accepted you aren't going to be happy again and plus you're unable to connect as a human being which is probably one of the main reasons you can end up depressed then it's difficult. In fact, it's the point of not being able to connect that leaves you so empty and the constant grey mood means you're destined to you be ignored in generally in life unless you've able to muster up enough light energies to get what you need. Which for the essentials you should be able to muster it up. It's difficult losing your personality and creativity because they're probably two of the most important parts of living. You need creativity to be successful in whatever you do and creativity means you're interesting or you find life interesting and that in it self goes into your personality as well. Without either, you're sort of just existing and without either you're grey and when you're grey, you'll find it so hard to maintain friendships and to progress in life and in isolation will be where you want to be. When you've lost interest in anything external especially. Isolation seems to be the only place you can be where you won't be poisoning other peoples energies with your dark cloud. I've been living and experiencing this over and over, I've got enough evidence to fill a book or two. Anything as simple as sending an email to somebody can be ignored very easily if you're very aware of your own lack of charisma and the depressed mood is written in the words for the other person's subconscious to easily ignore it. The whole law of attraction thing as well, you know, have two people in a room say the same thing but one says it smiling and laughing and positively and the other vice versa and the two groups much prefer A than B. Well that's great but you can't fake A.

Anyone have any opinions or ideas about this? I really want to find some sort of solution to feeling well nothing. Thanks.

-- Wed Jul 01, 2015 6:09 am --

I forgot to mention about not being able to fake A i.e the happy vs sad thing. Law of attraction always tends to say that your apperance and how you look to other people i.e smiling and positive posture etc will come across better than the opposite of that but in actual fact. That only works with first impressions i.e. the first 10 seconds of contact. Someone that never smiles and has poor posture etc can still be positive and have light energy and come across far better than someone who puts all that smiling and straight posture etc into a conversation. Law of attraction tends to be appearance but really that doesn't come into it, what comes into it is something you can't really control which is how you feel inside. So that's what I meant when I said you can't fake A, it's that even pretending to be positive and happy and putting that into your voice people will still not be attracted to your person and the result will be bad.

That's why quantum physics has the exact same results whether you're online, on the phone or talking face to face with somebody. People' sub conscious picks up on it straight away and it'll decide straight away.

Who wants to talk to a dark energy that's not interesting?

I think interesting is a relative term. What one person may find interesting, may bore the other person. That's why there are tons of sports. Some like chess while some prefer outdoor activities.

It's also why there are different varieties of porn.

Even people are different. Some people at some time are interested in watching sad movies. Just because someone is depressed doesn't mean that he's boring. A depressed person's intellect/outlook may enlighten the other person.

The thing is, how if depression can be clinical then can you do anything in life besides the absolute basic survival needs that doesn't involve the dependence on other people? If you've pretty much accepted you aren't going to be happy again and plus you're unable to connect as a human being which is probably one of the main reasons you can end up depressed then it's difficult.

many factors influence the brain chemistry/mood/outlook towards a situation:
food, habits, presence of friends, type of friends, books on depression, insight about a situation

Law of attraction tends to be appearance but really that doesn't come into it, what comes into it is something you can't really control which is how you feel inside. So that's what I meant when I said you can't fake A, it's that even pretending to be positive and happy and putting that into your voice people will still not be attracted to your person and the result will be bad.

i agree that you can't fake being happy and will mostly end up getting caught. i guess that not everyone needs to be happy n cheerful all the time. i mean when i do work at office, my boss is mostly concerned about my work n less about my depression.

i think the reason many people say:
"you must look happy n have a charismatic personality"
is because it makes you more appealing n presentable.

think of it as this way: if you get 2 replies n one reply has bad grammar, misspelled words
n other reply has similar content but with appropriate grammar, correctly spelled words, the first reply would be easier to read.

in the professional world, may people are of similar level of competence, so the other parameters can give you an edge over one person.

I think interesting is a relative term. What one person may find interesting, may bore the other person. That's why there are tons of sports. Some like chess while some prefer outdoor activities.

It's also why there are different varieties of porn.

Even people are different. Some people at some time are interested in watching sad movies. Just because someone is depressed doesn't mean that he's boring. A depressed person's intellect/outlook may enlighten the other person.

Well, I'm talking about the depressed mind that's close to losing joy in almost everything they do, especially conversations with other people. The interactions will be very critical on society as a whole and talking about or at least thinking how pointless everything is and therefore conversations will last minutes instead of hours.

I don't know one single person who wants to spend the day out with someone whose depressed. I'm not talking about a person whose always had a kind of depressed outlook on things and it's sort of a part of their personality and it's bearable and its just who they are. Actually they aren't depressed, they're negative. I'm talking about somebody whose become depressed, their personalities are destroyed and almost empty because of the depression.

Hey, you found someone, okay let's see how enthusiastic they'll be the next day and in a week's time when you're ringing them. In the short term, perhaps but in the long term, no.`

think of it as this way: if you get 2 replies n one reply has bad grammar, misspelled words
n other reply has similar content but with appropriate grammar, correctly spelled words, the first reply would be easier to read.

in the professional world, may people are of similar level of competence, so the other parameters can give you an edge over one person.

It would be easier to read and if you're saying that one will get the most replies because of that then actually it's not because it's easier to read but the person's energies where high and positive when they wrote what they did. Now have that guy write exactly what the other guy wrote and it's harder to read as you say but then that will get the most replies.