To many I am a perfectly capable socialite; the class clown type, the person that will make people laugh on a daily basis. I regularly impress people with my high academic achievements and sporting accolades. People are constantly commenting on how nice of a person I am.(However I am not a pushover type at all) I have more than enough friends, a good social life and girls tell me that I'm 'hot' and 'cute'. Sounds like a grand life, eh?
On the inside however, I am an absolute wreck. Suicide is reeling itself closer and closer day by day. I've received medicinal treatment, and although I think it has improved my general mood a bit, it has not done much to help the suicidal ideation. It also feels as if I'm turning demented. If I sleep in and miss a college lecture, I will shout and roar at myself in the mirror. I get paranoid; this feeling that I am the joke. That my life is the joke that everyone is laughing at. The person who can't really be taken seriously and is pitied.
I'm 20 years old and I've never had a romantic relationship. Not even close. I've had my fair share of one night flings or whatever, but all they leave me feeling is like the 'drunken mistake'. I get paranoid that I have some trait that just turns girls off, but this doesn't really make sense since I have plenty of female friends. I feel hard done by. I see guys that are ten times more awkward than me or much less physically flattering and yet have women by their sides that I would kill to be with. It's pretty much turned into an obsession inside my own head. Al I can think about it how badly I want a girlfriend. I'm not even naive about it; I know for certain that its not something extraordinary, or something mystical that I'm missing out on. I know that its just different and than many people in relationships aren't even happy. But this doesn't help me take it off my mind.
I guess what I really want to ask is: Anyone else who has never had a relationship, do you feel somehow broken? Almost at if your failing as a human being at the very basic level? Sometimes I genuinely feel like an alien, incapable of being loved. Doomed to be a mere observer of passionate human romance 'till the day I die.