I really don't know how to help her but I really want to because I know she has good in her because she has helped me through depression and has always been there for me. We've been friends for a long time and she finally told me that she's a horrible person and I could do better. I asked her why and she then told me "I've become less tolerant and I talk badly about almost everybody" So I then went into how I was not going to give up on her and that I can help her change and she then told me "Hating is easy for me & I don't care. I don't care about changing and I prob won't be able to. It's just how I'm wired. I literally have hated people since I was little and just talking s*** about them and being annoyed really easily". She has always managed to hide this from me. She then told me that she doesn't hate me but she hates a lot of the thing I do. I really want to try to help her but I don't know how. She's really a sweet person deep down. I feel like that what's she's saying isn't the full truth because I don't understand how anybody can be happy like this. She told me as a kid she used to mouth off to the teachers etc. but she no longer does that. One other thing about her is that she's fairly antisocial and prefers texting/skypeing/calling to communicate with the few friends she has. Also to give you an idea of some of the things that annoy her I copied and pasted this. ''Oh btw another way not to annoy me is don't ask "what's up" because I hate that question so instead of asking that, just talk about random stuff idc
Like if you don't know what to say and all you wanna say is "what's up?" Just think of somethin else to talk about idk. It just makes me mad for some reason" I just wonder if these are signs of depression or something else cause I don't know why she's like this.