dramaqueen hiya!
ok, the others were right- effexor is pretty good. it is one of the better ones (i was on it for YEARS and only got off it successfully in January this year), BUT (there's always a but hey?) they didnt paint the picture of just how ugly the other side to this coin is...
like sarah already mentioned- skipping a day is not on. but it's not just gonna make you feel funny- it'l make you feel like you are crawling in your skin- and like your brain is "quivering" in your skull. i dunno how to discribe this but it's not just me- every one of my drs have said this is VERY common amongst ppl who are on it. and that's just if you skip a day! we're not even talking about coming off it yet! and the longer i was on the stuff, the more i would get to the stage where this would start happening just before my daily dose was due. so for instance i would take it 9pm every night, then by 4pm I would start with these symptoms already.
coming off it was the worst experience of my life, as has been the case with 2 of my friends too. and i did it REEEEEEEEEEEEEally slowly (over 7 months!!!!! you couldnt get slower than that!) and i felt like i would prefer to just DIE than go thru it all. you got the same symptoms as i discribed above, but on a MUCH greater scale! and your emotions go loopy from the chemical changes that are taking place in your brain etc. you got cold sweats. BIG time nausea- ALL day EVERY day- ( i think i'm prepared now for morning sickness when preggie!!!lol) but you don't throw up. it jsut feels like you are really car-sick the whole time. you get massive headaches. actually- mine often became migraines. you can't concetrate too well. you fidget. jeez- i could go on and on...
the point is- whilst effexor has its uses and is pretty good, just be sure you really are prepared to go thru all this when you go off the stuff. because it WONT be a picnic in the park when you do. to date i've only heard of ONE person that didnt really have side effects- and this person was on this site. first hand- ppl i've met in the flesh- NO one i've known has not had bad side effects, and when i asked my drs they said none of their patients didnt have any either, so i guess that person was one HELLUVA lucky dude!!!
also- years ago i thought i was fine on the mds and that i didnt need them and so stopped cold turkey (well- kinda- went from 225mg down to nothing in 2-3 weeks) and every time wound up in hospital with a MAJOR crash- slit wrists, tripple lethal overdose of Xanax and Rivotril in me... you get the picture. so don't ever try that one- it will end really messilly...
just thought i'd tell you the other side of venlafaxine that you might not have known.... hope you make the right choice... if it were me, with hindsite- i wouldn't touch the stuff if you paid me 10 million pounds!!!but that's just me (and my friends...)
good luck!