lonely

I got married at 20 and I have been married for 10 years I have alway been a little depressed but these past few months I have been crying everyday I feel like I have no future I feel so lonely to the poin were I just sit in the car for hours bymyself I feel so confused my husband is very suppoive and cares alot for but I am so sad all the time I have 2 children and we have had no help as far as family members giving us a break so we can just have some time alone. I feel so alone and sad I dn't know what to do before I started this forum I had no one to talk to your my only friend right know my career is going nowhere so I feel like a failure on top of everthing else. Please help me I'm so alone

Hey there


When you said that your family members haven't given you any breaks I asssume that you mean they continually call to your house, phone, etc? This can certainly be very annoying, especially at moment of depression. There is no problem with rejecting them though - Some people like their alone-time.


Never be afraid to take control of your life and strive for what you want - Nobody controls you but yourself my dear. Do you know what you want from your life? In my life I have noticed that some depressed people are those that are merely at crossroads in their lives, but have no direction. So, I implore you to find out what you want to do. Once you know that, go for it and let nobody hold you back.


I hope that your children are getting along alright.


Take care,
Kevster

I am confused, because you said you got husband who supports you. You got children, and maybe children and your husband feel alone.

So, natural answer is don’t isolate your self from these who love you.

My question is what would it take for you to not feel alone?

adora wrote:I got married at 20 and I have been married for 10 years I have alway been a little depressed but these past few months I have been crying everyday I feel like I have no future I feel so lonely to the poin were I just sit in the car for hours bymyself I feel so confused my husband is very suppoive and cares alot for but I am so sad all the time I have 2 children and we have had no help as far as family members giving us a break so we can just have some time alone. I feel so alone and sad I dn't know what to do before I started this forum I had no one to talk to your my only friend right know my career is going nowhere so I feel like a failure on top of everthing else. Please help me I'm so alone

MarkoJaric55 wrote:

adora wrote:I got married at 20 and I have been married for 10 years I have alway been a little depressed but these past few months I have been crying everyday I feel like I have no future I feel so lonely to the poin were I just sit in the car for hours bymyself I feel so confused my husband is very suppoive and cares alot for but I am so sad all the time I have 2 children and we have had no help as far as family members giving us a break so we can just have some time alone. I feel so alone and sad I dn't know what to do before I started this forum I had no one to talk to your my only friend right know my career is going nowhere so I feel like a failure on top of everthing else. Please help me I'm so alone

Dude you are really wasting everyone's time here. Why are you here? To offer advice or seek it. Because none of your posts offer advice or ask for it. So please tell me, are we amusing to you?
Amy

Hey, Adora! It is not as bad as it seems. I dont have even a husband to support me. I live alone and no friends to share my depression pains.