Hey All

I am new on the forum. I think this is the right forum for this stuff, either way I just have to let it out somewhere. Excuse this for being so long...

There is a girl I have met. I hung out with her and stayed with her for at least 3 days. I have always been really shy and scared to ever make any moves on people and I really wanted to at least lay beside her and so on but I could never have the guts to do so. So then when she dropped me off at a friends house I stayed there for a week. She had said she would at least hang out with me a couple of more times. The entire week went by and I never had the guts to call, except I finally just did it because it was driving me completely crazy, she didnt answer and then she went out of town for another 3 days. I was in some deep stuff while at my friends house, I felt sick to my stomache and I was incredibly depressed. I really wanted to hang out with her and I hoped that she liked me. I don't know if she likes me or not, I might just be paranoid but she hasn't been online all that much and also when I finally did talk to her she didn't seem to be typing the same way as she did before and said nothing about hanging out again.

She is gone again for a few days so I won't be able to really talk to her about how much I really like her, but then again she could just completely hate me and I wouldn't know it and telling her that could just freak her out. I have never felt such feelings for any of the previous people I have been with, but this girl is making me go crazy and I really like her. I can't sleep at night normally anymore without taking PM's and I am so un-easy that I don't know if I want to be left alone or if I want to be with people. Usually music helps me a lot and it does...but not even happy songs are keeping me from crying. Any advice would be great. I feel so alone at this...

well, she probably just doens't get that you like her, if she's still talking to you and all, then be more agressive, and get what you want! the step outside of your comfort zone will be well worth it:)

Thanks, at least someone replied. I'll do my best. My friends haven't been much help to me. I'll give it a shot. Wish me luck

indeed! good luck:) somtimes friends just forget that we need them somtimes:P i hope it all works out:)