This may sound crazy but have to ask

When you guys meet a person that is a Narcissist or have Aspd can you feel their pressence(sp)? Like they make you feel a certain way I feel doom when I meet one of these people. The odd thing is I don't run away when others do I am more attracted to them more

That's strange. I was raised by a NPD, and knew a few people with it. They came acrossed as charming and pleasant at first, but then I just didn't want to be around them. Too emotionally distant for me. As for the person who raised me, that was hell, but they didn't come acrossed that way to me nor anyone.

And the only ASPD I knew was someone in high school. He came acrossed very neutral. He wasn't someone who gave way to "reading".

I am not DPD, but I can tell when someone has NPD traits fairly quickly. I become facinated and end up over analyzing them. I also have a strong desire to be around them as much as possible.

hologram wrote:I am not DPD, but I can tell when someone has NPD traits fairly quickly. I become facinated and end up over analyzing them. I also have a strong desire to be around them as much as possible.

Unfortunately, I get drawn in too. Then I spot that they're NPD. And my conscious mind reminds my subconscious how that has ended in the past.

spartacandream wrote:Unfortunately, I get drawn in too. Then I spot that they're NPD. And my conscious mind reminds my subconscious how that has ended in the past.

My concious mind tries to warn me too. It warns me that the person with NPD does not care about me and most of the things they say or do are only an act. The problem is that even knowing this, I can't convince myself that it's true.

Angelhearted12 wrote:When you guys meet a person that is a Narcissist or have Aspd can you feel their pressence(sp)? Like they make you feel a certain way I feel doom when I meet one of these people. The odd thing is I don't run away when others do I am more attracted to them more

People with NPD feel very familiar to me. I don't feel doomed and nether do I feel the need to run away from them.

Angelhearted12 wrote: The odd thing is I don't run away when others do I am more attracted to them more

Me too. I'm always very attracted to people with traits that would seem negative to others. Narcissistic, emotionally distant, cold, and just plain evil people always catch my attention. Especially males- any relationship where the guy truly appreciates me and gives me lots of attention, etc.- I end up losing interest very quickly. If a guy ignores me and treats me badly, I'll like him all the more. It's a pretty bad situation

I like my people who are in my own diagnostic range--bipolars, histronics and mild borderlines. I like people with Asperger's, ADD and ADHD.

Long ago there was a narcissist in a food service outfit where I worked. He wasn't that bad but he was rude sometimes.



I am scared of people with AsPD but I do like the fact that they are very objective, and I feel that in a survival situation, if an AsPD person had some ethics and some compassion, that they would make a good leader.

I could not resist and had to take part on this discussion. I am a narcissistic aspd who has a lot of experience with histronics lmao. I know hpd women love to look at me from a distance and LOVE when I acknowledge their presence but get quite intimidated as I approach. The sex with these women is off the chain of course, unfortunately they take a while to realize I don't form attachmentts with people which drives them crazy. What I find interesting as well, is they will do anything to get my attention, at times to be sadistic I will completely ignore them.

Histrionics are fun in bed and when flirting... I know very few that were as good as they, yet as irritating as hell when they're miserable.