advice please

I realized I have some characteristics of DPD. It is always hard for me to let go of relationships, and make decisions, and I used to be clingy in relationships. My parents were very overprotective growing up. This last relationship I was not as clingy until after the breakup. I was dating a guy who has OCD. We only dated for 3 months. Only French kissed once or twice. Rest of the kisses are short. We haven’t had sex after 3 months of dating. Most we’ve done is kiss and him touching my butt nothing under clothes, no cuddling. Only time he held my hand was when I cried. He broke up with me saying he doesn’t feel excited anymore. I really thinks he actually has OCPD but was never diagnosed. But wants to be friends. I said I can’t be friends. I mentioned after the breakup that he was the first guy that actually never touched me under my clothes or cuddled with me and he snapped and told me everyone is different and not to compare him with my exes. One night when we were dating and we each went home after the date I asked if I could come over and he said he wasn't ready for that. I said well we don't have to do anything, just cuddle and he said no he's tired. I texted a few times after the breakup that I wasn't ready to be friends but maybe one day we can hang out as a group like he suggested after the breakup and he said maybe.

Anyways, a few weeks after the breakup (we've been broken up for a month now) his mom ran into me at a church event and said we should be friends. I said I can’t because I have feelings. And his mom said it’s not good to be sensitive and it’s good to go slow in relationships. Then a day later I tried making small talk with him and things were fine. But now he won’t even talk to me right now because I mentioned that I thought that when we were dating cuddling and back rubs would be better than nothing at all since he wasn’t ready for sex. He said I made him feel uncomfortable by bringing it up. I sent 4 texts saying sorry I won’t bring it up again and he didn't respond. I asked how his day was. No response. I said I wouldn't make him feel uncomfortable again no response. Then I asked if he was upset with me. No response. This was in a span of 8 hours. He said he doesn’t want to talk for awhile to cool off so we can both absorb what happened and I sent 3 texts basically saying ok well I’m here if you ever want to talk that sometimes it helps to talk about things like it did for me after my Dad passed and we don’t have to talk about anything he’s not comfortable with. I also said text me when you're ready. Then I said good night and the last text didn't go through. I realized I was blocked and I had a crying spell. I emailed him twice begging him to unblock me but he did not respond. I also messaged his sister saying I won’t bother him but if he can please unblock me if she can talk to him. I’m embarrassed I messaged his sister but I felt desperate. I’m so sad. Is it common for people with OCD or OCPD to not even want to talk about cuddling or anything intimate? Two nights ago he sent me an email saying he doesn’t want any further contact that he felt uncomfortable talking about the past and wishes be the best. I said ok that’s fine I don’t want to be friends either (eventhough I do). And I wish him the best too and we should be mature when we see each other at church events. I also said sorry for doing what I did. I was just emotional that he blocked me. Do you think he’ll ever unblock me? I’m so sad. I never told him that OCD is related to his intimacy issues. He thinks it’s just a germ thing like holding public buttons and organizing sugar packets in a row or maybe he does know it’s his OCD but doesn’t want to talk about it. It’s hard for me to move on. I don’t know what to do. I miss his friendship.

I bought a book on DPD. I've been seeing a therapist for anxiety and depression. She said I have some characteristics of DPD but I don't have the disorder. Do you think he'll ever unblock me? I don't want to date him again because he was never really affectionate and never gave me compliments. I do miss his friendship though.