Father's dimentia progressing

My dad's dimentia is progressing to where it is disturbing me. I don't want to admit that I'd rather leave things be. But I couldn't. I do care about him a lot. Just am not showing it much to detach myself from him. I know that isn't right. But do any one of you have recmendations, for dealing with oncoming senility. Cause that's what I've been having trouble dealing with most.

It sounds like part of your detachment might be related to denial of your father's dementia. We tend to go through 5 stages of loss, when it comes to facing a chronic illness, loss of independence or a death. This can also apply to a loved one's chronic or life altering illness. The stages are: Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Denial and detachment seems to be where you are, it is part of the shock and not wanting to accept it at first, which is in fact a totally normal response! The best way to precede since it seems you are concerned, is to have your father evaluated by a professional (Psychologist, psychiatrist, neurologist or his regular physician). Its best if the professional has some expertise or experience in the field of gerontology or the elderly (Although dementia can sometimes occur to those in younger years, in rare cases). Either way, that professional should be able to advise you on next steps & recommendations. Take care!