WOW!! Where was this forum when I needed it like 3 years ago?
My ex was diagnised with DD ( paranoid type) and possibly PPD and possibly Depression and possibly Schizoaffective disorder and I could go on! I know all about Risperdal, Zoloft, Paxil, Wellbutrin, Deseryl, etc., etc--they did NO good!
My life was very much like the other spouses have described...a living hell. He's still not well and refuses to be treated ( no meds no counseling though he'd been involuntarily hospitalized 3 times before we divorced--and he initiated it ( the divorce) !!!--THE nerve after I delt with his crap for years...but I digress) and still lives his life as if the government and every other person or persons is out to get him. He accused me of attempetd murder ( of him--of course) and of every heinous crime he could think of. He's a known commodity to the local State Police and they ignore his complaints anymore. He bugged our home with surveilance devices and claims to have all kinds of evidence, that was conveniently stolen, of me trying to kill him as well as other, unknown people, that I was in conspircay with, trying to kill him as he has these very important "secrets" "they want". He made false claims to the homeowners insurnace for $30,0000 claiming all of his "important papers and documents were stolen" and that all of his "clothes were contaminated". They dropped the insurance gee I wonder whY???? UUGGHH!!!!
So...I'm thrilled to see that others have lived my hell ( sorry misery loves company)...and saddened all at the same time. I found the mental health, so called, professionals in my area to have been less than helpful. They couldn't deal with him!! He was and is too smart for them!!! My marriage was destroyed...a good man lives like a fugitive for no reasons and I have been forced into a forclosue of a house all due to this God-awful illness that NO ONE can seem to cure or at least control!
I ended up re-married to a great man and have a relatively normal life now. Though, unfortunately, I have to have contact with my ex due to financial reasons ( he messed up his and my finances so bad, that was also and still continues to be, a major problem but will, hopefully end soon). He's often jobless and has no clue as to handle his money...it is very sad. His family washed their hands of him and they still contact me for "help" with him on an occasional basis. I refuse now that I am re-married ( and he doesn't know it and neither do any of his family and I intend to keep it that way for as long as I can).
I just wish there was more hope for people like this but I guess there isn't. Our medical professionNEEDS to do more so that these awful stories don't have to be told and shared any more.
I wish all folks in this forum luck.
And as I said when I started, where was this 3 years ago???